Ladies!!! No use getting mad at these dudes because they get busy or life gets to them, just make a decision based off of your instincts whether you should stick and stay or not. Now, for me, if a man shows me that he has a lot going on, and he’s too busy to where he can’t simply text/call consistently, and he started this thing with me, it’s no big deal to me to walk away and allow him the space to live his life, and catch up on whatever it is he needs to be more balanced (NO! I was not that always this way, bc I did not innerstand, but I am now, and that’s all that matters!). I’m just not waiting around to get any time/attention from anyone. I made that mistake in the past, and it will not ever be made again. I realize now people sometimes do need a lot of space to grow, especially when they latch onto folk they see and think they want/need but they’re just grabbing at straws & taking on too much/too many ppl when they really should be focused on something else. Let ppl go! .. without malice/a grudge. Time is our most precious commodity, even if it is misunderstood, it doesn’t need to be wasted. ☮️ + ❤️