Do you really know the difference between being a team player… and being codependent?

In this eye-opening and deeply validating episode, the docs take a tender and honest look at codependence in medicine — what it is, where it comes from, how it hides behind “professionalism”… and why so many physicians unknowingly carry these patterns from childhood into their careers.

We explore:

✨ The 5 core symptoms of codependence (originally defined by Pia Mellody)
✨ Why medicine often rewards codependent behavior
✨ How emotional neglect or inconsistency in childhood can shape who we become as physicians
✨ Why boundaries are not selfish (and how to actually hold them)
✨ The real reason we say yes to shifts we don’t want, take on burdens that aren’t ours, and don’t let ourselves pee, eat, or rest
✨ What it means to return to your career on your terms

Plus: what we each wish we’d known earlier, and the freeing realization that you don’t have to be Superwoman to be worthy. You already are.

🔁 Whether you’re a “recovering people-pleaser,” just starting to untangle from burnout, or curious about how codependence shows up in your life — this episode is for you.

💌 Reflection prompt: Where in your life are you over-functioning, denying your needs, or confusing self-sacrifice with self-worth?

🔊 Tune in to learn:

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  Why your emotional suppression was adaptive — and how to gently grow past it

  
  


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  How to recognize when you’re doing other people’s emotional work

  
  


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  What boundaries really are (and how they can bring you back to life)

  
  


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  The simple mindset shift that helps you reclaim your energy, agency, and worth

  
  

💬 Email us at podcast@thewholephysician.com — we’d love to hear your experience with these patterns.
📲 Follow us on socials @thewholephysician for memes, tools, and behind-the-scenes inspiration.

🌟 And exciting news! We’re back for the third annual Happier Hours at ASEP Scientific Assembly 2025 in Salt Lake City!! Stay tuned for the official launch of our event page. 🎉

Until next time —
You are whole. You are a gift to medicine. The work you do matters.