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Attention builds identity. That’s the heartbeat of our conversation with Stephen Crews as we explore what it really means to “behold and become.” We start with Psalm 27:4—one thing, one focus, one desire—and trace how a lifestyle of beholding Jesus forms habits of mind and heart that outlast hype and hurry. Stephen shares concrete rhythms for silence, Scripture, and prayer, including a simple image for quieting mental noise: let the day’s thoughts pass like groceries on a belt until the line clears and you can listen. The goal isn’t chasing experiences; it’s cultivating relationship—steady, honest, and deeply transformative.

From there, we dig into grace as power, not permission. Drawing on 2 Corinthians 12 and Titus 2, we unpack how grace meets us in weakness, trains our desires, and enables real change. Sanctification becomes a partnership: God works in us as we align daily choices to His presence. We talk fruit of the Spirit as the public evidence of private abiding—love, patience, and self-control that others can “pick” in real life, especially under pressure. Along the way, we get practical about boundaries, fasting, and the slow work of renewing the mind so Scripture moves from page to personal encounter.

We end with a call to apprenticeship: become like the Teacher by living with Him, adopting His practices, and staying resilient when you stumble. If attention is destiny, this is how to aim yours: guard your quiet, keep your focus, and let grace do what effort alone never could. If this resonates, share it with someone who’s hungry for a steady way forward, subscribe for more conversations like this, and leave a review to help others find the podcast.

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