HOW Soon Is Too Soon to Ask...What Are We?’

Update: 2025-10-15

Description

👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario

How soon is too soon to ask, “What are we?”On this episode of Real Love Scenario, we’re unpacking one of the most vulnerable—and important—conversations in dating: defining the relationship.
Is it a vibe… or are we actually building something? We’ll break down the key definitions, green flags, and red flags when it comes to exclusivity, timelines, and clarity.
🧠 We explore the 4 C’s:

Clarity – shared definitions of “exclusive” and “relationship”
Capacity – are they actually available emotionally and mentally?
Compatibility – values, goals, lifestyle pace
Consistency – do the actions match the words?

🔥 Topics We Cover:

Exclusivity vs. official relationship vs. sexual boundaries
Best & worst “DTR” (Define the Relationship) stories
The infamous “delete the apps” moment
Timelines that work… and ones that don’t
Scripts to open the convo without pressure

🟢 Green flags: Steady plans, “we” language, friend/fam integration🔴 Red flags: Avoiding the convo, vibe-only energy, hot–cold behavior
💬 Tell us your timeline in the comments:Team 6 Weeks / Team 3 Months / Team When-It-Feels-Right
🗣 Favorite prompt to try:“I’m not asking for a grid post—just clarity about us and deleting the apps.”
✅ Like, comment, subscribe, and follow us @RealLoveScenario.Vote in our IG poll and share your best DTR moment below!