In this episode, we examine the complexities of pathological narcissism, focusing on how the grandiose self-structure ("big ego") shapes relationships and hinders authentic connection. Using the case of a man named Barry, we explore how grandiosity serves as a defense against low self-esteem and painful emotions, leading to the creation of a false self. We discuss how understanding these dynamics is crucial for fostering deeper, more genuine relationships. This episode also highlights key therapeutic techniques to help individuals reflect on their grandiose beliefs and work toward cultivating their true selves. 

Finally! A Podcast for the Adult Children of Narcissistic & Borderline Parents
Take control of your life with honest & unfiltered advice from a therapist who gets it.

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