Heru’s story is a powerful and candid personal journey of its speaker, Heru, through discovering and accepting his bisexuality. Heru, now 29 years old and living in Atlanta, Georgia, reflects on his upbringing in Jamaica, Queens, New York, and his early struggles with understanding his attraction to both men and women. Despite societal pressures and the absence of the term 'bisexual' in his early vocabulary, Heru navigates through the complexities of sexual orientation and internalized biphobia. 

He shares pivotal moments from his youth, including the influence of pornography and his initial sexual experiences, that led him to question and eventually affirm his bisexuality. Heru's narrative also delves into the challenges of dating as a bisexual Black man, confronting and overcoming stereotypes, and seeking validation and confidence within himself and his relationships. 

His journey includes seeking community and finding support among other bisexual Black men, which played a crucial role in his self-acceptance and empowerment. Heru's story highlights the societal misconceptions and stigmas associated with bisexuality, particularly within the Black community, and his ongoing efforts to navigate a predominantly binary understanding of sexual orientation. 

This speaker presents an intimate and reflective account of his life experiences, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, community support, and self-acceptance.