In this episode of Question It., we explore the cumulative impact of "tiny traumas"—everyday experiences like
judgment, rejection, or neglect—and how they subtly shape emotional well-being and drive behaviors over time. By contrasting these with major "big T" traumas (ACEs), we can see how small, repeated hurts often go unnoticed yet carry significant weight. Listeners will learn how acknowledgment and validation can break the cycle of pain, offering practical strategies to foster understanding and strengthen connections in daily interactions. This episode encourages a reexamination of communication habits to prioritize emotional health as an ongoing practice and key driver of behavior.

Key Takeaway: "Little t" or "tiny traumas" are small, often-overlooked hurts in daily interactions, but through acknowledgment and validation, we can support emotional health, honor feelings, and minimize emotional pain, driving positive behavioral change.

Peace. Love. Connect.

Links/References:

Original Source:

• 4 Common Ways We Destroy Connection and Damage Emotional Health – https://kevinrstrauss.com/blog-4-common-ways-we-destroy-connection-and-damage-emotional-health/


• How Are We Unknowingly Hurting the People We Care About Most? | Ep. 24

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And a few sample questions we might discuss:

1. Can you think of a small, everyday interaction that has impacted your emotional well-being recently? How
   did it make you feel?


2. When was the last time someone truly acknowledged or validated your feelings? How did it affect your behavior
   afterward?


3. How do you typically respond when someone shares a concern or hurt with you? What do you think could help
   improve that response?


4. In what ways have you noticed tiny traumas affecting your relationships or behavior, and how might you address them moving forward?

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