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How Choosing Herself Over Her Husband Became Sarah May’s Greatest Act of Survival

How Choosing Herself Over Her Husband Became Sarah May’s Greatest Act of Survival

Update: 2025-09-23
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If you’ve ever felt trapped in a relationship that was breaking you, episode 372 is for you. Author and healing guide Sarah May shares how she left an abusive marriage that nearly cost her life—and how yoga, therapy, plant medicine, and writing helped her rebuild. With raw honesty, she shows how choosing yourself can open the door to freedom, resilience, and lasting love.


In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

(01:05 ) From heartbreak to homecoming: Sarah’s story and memoir

(03:32 ) Marrying young, betrayal, and the devastating impact of divorce

(06:50 ) Coping with infidelity, trauma, and a near-fatal helicopter crash

(10:45 ) Leaving everything behind and starting a cross-country road trip

(13:13 ) Why shifting from victimhood to responsibility changed everything

(17:00 ) How love and fear kept her stuck—and the courage to walk away

(19:13 ) The family patterns that shaped her relationships (and how she broke them)

(23:20 ) The healing power of yoga, therapy, journaling, and plant medicine

(30:27 ) Why self-love is the foundation of safe, lasting relationships


In today’s episode, I’m joined by Sarah May, an author, healing guide, and founder of She Journeys. Her memoir, She Journeys: A Memoir of Heartbreak and Homecoming, traces her experience of an abusive marriage, divorce, and the long process of reclaiming her voice. Drawing on this journey and years of spiritual and therapeutic work, she now supports women one-on-one through intuitive guidance, Reiki, meditation, and somatic practices. Passionate about turning grief into growth, Sarah lives in a camper van with her husband, embracing a life of freedom, healing, and love.


Throughout this episode, Sarah shares how leaving her marriage felt like a death, plunging her into depression before she slowly rebuilt her life on a cross-country road trip. Practices like yoga, meditation, therapy, breathwork, plant medicine, and journaling became vital in her healing and later shaped her work as a guide. She emphasizes the power of self-love, responsibility, and moving beyond victimhood, showing how profound loss can ultimately lead to resilience, gratitude, and a deeply fulfilling new chapter.


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How Choosing Herself Over Her Husband Became Sarah May’s Greatest Act of Survival

How Choosing Herself Over Her Husband Became Sarah May’s Greatest Act of Survival