In this episode, Phil talks about the importance of perseverance and self-belief in achieving personal and professional goals. He shares his experiences of overcoming challenges and highlights the need for resilience in the face of adversity. Emphasizing the importance of small, consistent steps and a positive mindset, Phil provides insights on how to transform our lives and realize our dreams through dedication and hard work. This episode is a powerful reminder to embrace failures as part of our journey towards success.

Welcome to The Phil Bohol Show, hosted by USMC veteran, mindset coach, sales expert, self-made entrepreneur, husband, and father, Phil Bohol. On this podcast, we don't just offer strategies — we offer a war cry, a call to arms, a challenge to rise, to break free from the shackles of mediocrity. You’ll learn the raw truth on how to break your limitations, scale your business to 7-figures, and level up every area of your life. Together, we won't just face challenges. We will crush them. Relentlessly.


Timestamps:

(01:31 ) - Always Embracing Perseverance

(05:38 ) - Reinventing Yourself

(09:44 ) - The Importance of Defining Your Dreams in Detail

(11:52 ) - Reverse Engineering Success

(12:58 ) - Embracing Messy Action

(14:29 ) - Enjoying the Process Leads to Faster Success

(18:37 ) - Focusing On The Immediate Next Step

(21:39 ) - The Power of Doing Your Best Daily

(22:44 ) - The Continuous Journey of Self-Improvement


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Transcription:

[00:00:00 ] You're going to get kicked in the face. 

It's going to try and test you on a daily basis. 

There's going to be some days where you're like, “No, I'm gonna crush this. I'm ready to fail. I'm in it to win it.” 

And the very next f*cking hour, you're like, “Jesus Christ. Ah, was this the right decision? Should I keep doing this? Damn it.” 

And then again, you wake up the next day. 

You're like, “I'm going to crush this.” 

Get kicked in the teeth again. 

[00:00:30 ] And you're just like, “Jesus, man, I don't even - ah, it's only been two days. And every day it's like that cycle.” 

And for some reason, you just focus on, “OK, I'm going to get hit in the face again. I'm going to get hit in the face again.” 

And then one day you look up and you're just like, “Oh, sh*t. My whole life has changed. I'm still getting kicked in the teeth, but like, my whole life has changed. I don't even know how I'm doing it, but I'm just doing my best every day.” 

[00:01:00 ] When you can just do your best every day, you win.

What's going on you guys? 

It's Phil Bohol and welcome to the Phil Bohol Show, where we have real talk about family, fitness, finance, and everything that would hold you back from leveling up in every area of your life. 

And more importantly, how I personally got through them. 

Everybody else in this world wants to bullsh*t you.

I'm here to give you the truth.

[00:01:30 ] Guys, today we're going to talk about how to keep going when you don't see results. 

I think this is everybody's f*cking problem. 

Look, you're going to go through a lot in your life. 

You're going to go through so many trials in your life. 

Doesn't matter what season you're in, doesn't matter if it's, if it's personal related, if it's relationship related, if it's career or business related, doesn't matter.

[00:02:00 ] You're going to go through so much sh*t in your life to get to where you're wanting to go. 

And the biggest thing that you have to remember that that causes anybody to be unsuccessful or successful is their ability to continue to persevere even if they don't see those results. 

You're gonna get broken off, or life, God, the universe will try every single thing to see how long can you stay in the fight for.

And you gotta remember that most people don't stay in the fight for that long. 

[00:02:30 ] Most people in this world, they talk and they talk and they talk, and they say, they say, they say. 

They say they're gonna do these things that are amazing in life. 

And they don't follow through because in the mind, the mind says that we want these big bad goals.

We want to have the lifestyle. 

We want to have the money. 

We want to have the house. 

We want to have the cars. 

We want to have the family. 

We want to have all of that stuff in our mind. 

It feels so good to like, to think about that, to dream about it, to, to see ourselves in those situations in those environments.

[00:03:00 ] We're just like, damn, that's going to be so amazing. 

Once I'm there, it's going to feel so amazing. 

Once I've achieved all of those things. 

And then they like try for like a second, and then like it hurts, it sucks, it hurts. 

The things that you have to do in a relationship, you want to have the perfect relationship, you want to get married one day, you want to have kids, and then you still have ego, you still have pride, you still like talk down to people, you still treat people like sh*t, you still take things personal.

[00:03:30 ] How the f*ck are you going to attract the perfect partner for yourself if you still act that way?

Or maybe you're not good with your money, or maybe you're not responsible. 

Maybe you're just drinking all the time. 

Maybe you're always high. 

Maybe you're not doing anything to attract somebody who actually wants to get married to that.

Like, if you're not somebody that somebody good wants to get married to, is that their fault? 

Is that the world's fault? 

Or is that your fault for not becoming who you need to be? 

[00:04:00 ] You can want the marriage, you can want the relationships, you can want the best person you could possibly f*cking attract. 

But are you that person that they would be attracted to?

See, the thing about relationships is, you don't seek a relationship. 

You become the best version of you. 

And that best version of you attracts the people that would be attracted to that version of you. 

[00:04:30 ] But what it takes for you to go from the sh*t bag to the perfect version of you for now, that's good enough to find that relationship.

It's going to take a lot of work in the middle. 

A lot of personal, you're going to have to drop the drinking, you're going to have to drop the smoking. 

You're going to have to get into the gym. 

You're going to have to like take your career or your business seriously. 

So that way you're not struggling just to get by.

And then once you have a little bit of stability, that perfect partner will like notice you. 

Or maybe because you're going to be in different scenarios, instead of being at the bar or going out to drinks with friends, you're at the gym, maybe you bump into her there. 

[00:05:00 ] Or maybe, like, you go to a networking event, because, like, you're taking your business and your career seriously.

Instead of getting high, you're at a networking event, and maybe you bump into her over there. 

But do you see how the different actions that you take result in different things? 

But if you're always doing the same bullsh*t, that's gotten you to where you're at right now in life, you're never going to have different variables.

You're never going to have different outputs because the input will be the same. 

[00:05:30 ] When we think about your business, when we think about life, when we think about leveling up in every single area, the work in the middle of where you're at to where you want to get to, the work in the middle is where everybody breaks off.

You have to remember that you're going to get here when you get here. 

There's really no way to accelerate this part of your personal development. 

Now, how fast somebody can personally develop, that's the only thing that that changes, right? 

So instead of taking 10 years, maybe it takes five, maybe it takes one, maybe it takes a week.

It's probably not going to take a week. 

Let's just, let's just be real. 

[00:06:00 ] Your ability to completely change and reinvent yourself. 

At a rapid rate, will allow you to condense that time. 

When you learn from mentors, when you learn from people that have already walked the path you want to walk, you condense that time.

But it's different for different people. 

People, like me, can drop who the f*ck we've seen ourselves as. 

Like, for our entire life, if I've seen myself one way, I can completely drop that version of me today. 

And then I can start becoming the newest version of me. 

Most people can't do that because what happens?

[00:06:30 ] Most people are like, “Oh, well, sh*t. If I start changing how I've been this entire time, like what happens if my family starts judging me and they start hating on me, because they've known me to be like this drinker, this smoker,