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How to Deal with Difficult People Who Are NOT Full-Blown Narcissists

How to Deal with Difficult People Who Are NOT Full-Blown Narcissists

Update: 2019-07-282
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People can be difficult. No lie, right!

Sometimes, they are difficult for a moment. Sometimes, through a rough patch.


Today's episode is help for dealing with those two kinds of occasionally difficult behavior.


Although these strategies are foundational to what you have to do when you're with the relentlessly difficult, toxic people I call #Hijackals, there is SO much more to learn about how to effectively manage toxic relationships. That's why most of the episodes on Save Your Sanity are very specific to the #Hijackals, the folks who will create toxic relationships, for sure.


But, you will meet moments when even those people who can be mostly loving are difficult. These areas in today's episode are worth exploring within yourself. You may find that you would feel better--and more prepared and confident--if you got some more skills to respond to these situations.


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HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • Distinguish between different patterns of difficult behavior
  • Acknowledge underlying feelings others may be trying to express
  • Keep the desired result you want from any conversation in mind...while you're having it
  • Use language well
  • Be flexible, and allow for personal differences
  • Be willing to teach people how you want to be treated
  • Know your own bottom line, and stay in the black!


You'll find that in many other episodes of this podcast, and on my YouTube channel, too.


Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, grab my

FREE EBOOK, How to Spot a Hijackal® at Hijackals.com . You need to know what's up now, so you don't make mistakes that will hurt you. Grab it!


If you need help with any part of the journey with--and from--a #Hijackal, I'm here for you. Let's talk soon. I make it easy and accessible for you to have your first one-hour session with me for only $97.


Make positive changes NOW.


Big hugs,

Rhoberta


Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

TransformingRelationship.com or ForRelationshipHelp.com


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You can also listen to the last 32 episodes of Save Your Sanity on Mental Health News Radio Network. That's a great place to get in-depth insights for shoring up mental and emotional health of all kinds.


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How to Deal with Difficult People Who Are NOT Full-Blown Narcissists

How to Deal with Difficult People Who Are NOT Full-Blown Narcissists