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How to Stop Letting Someone Lie To You - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

How to Stop Letting Someone Lie To You - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

Update: 2020-01-27
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#Hijackals manipulate. Therefore, Hijackals lie.

Whether that #Hijackal is narcissistic, borderline, or anti-social, it doesn't matter. They will lie.


Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult, toxic people--want the outcomes they want. Therefore, they deceive you.


Deceiving you means causing you to believe something that is not true usually to gain some personal advantage. Typical of Hijackals, right? They must win. Therefore, you must lose. To them, anything that helps them win is fair game.


I know you want to believe the lies. The Hijackal is often telling you what you want to hear with little intention of giving you what you want to receive. They know the edges, and often overstep them.


Don't be in denial. A narcissist does NOT have your best interests at heart. NO! Hijackals have their best interests at heart. They even put their own interests over what's best for their children. Nasty!


So, it's time to step up and stop accepting the lies!


No, don't tell them they are wrong. Don't tell them they are lying. You already know that just causes more fury.


Recognize the ways you have let them lie to you and why. (I'll help with that, so listen.)

Understand why #Hijackals lie.

Face the truth. See it as it is.

Examine your options.

Take action.


In a few weeks, I'll be doing another episode on ways to confront the lying and NOT blow things up. Subscribe and stay tuned.

best regards,

Rhoberta


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HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • What deception really is
  • Usual reasons for not confronting the lies narcissists tell
  • What stops you from stepping up to the truth
  • Why #Hijackals® lie
  • Why you let them
  • Big four steps to stop the lies


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How to Stop Letting Someone Lie To You - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

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