Hunter Schafer: Polyamory, Cheating & Fame
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This episode of Call Her Daddy features Hunter Shafer, a rising star known for her role as Jules Vaughn in the HBO drama series Euphoria. The conversation delves into various aspects of Hunter's life, starting with her upbringing in North Carolina and the challenges of being queer in the South. She shares her experiences with bullying, coming out to her parents who are both pastors, and finding solace in art. Hunter discusses her journey of discovering her trans identity and the support she received from her family. The conversation then shifts to her acting career, including her audition for Euphoria, the surreal experience of becoming famous, and the challenges of navigating public scrutiny. Hunter also opens up about her dating life, her preferences, and her experiences with both cis and trans partners. The episode concludes with Hunter reflecting on her personal growth, her evolving perspective on relationships, and her newfound passion for acting.
Outlines
Hunter Shafer's Journey: From North Carolina to Hollywood
The podcast begins with Alex Cooper welcoming Hunter Shafer to Call Her Daddy. They discuss Hunter's upbringing in North Carolina, the challenges of being queer in the South, and how she found solace in art. Hunter shares her experiences with bullying, coming out to her parents who are both pastors, and her journey of discovering her trans identity.
Navigating Fame and Identity: Euphoria, Public Scrutiny, and Dating Life
The conversation shifts to Hunter's acting career, including her audition for Euphoria, the surreal experience of becoming famous, and the challenges of navigating public scrutiny. Hunter also opens up about her dating life, her preferences, and her experiences with both cis and trans partners.
Finding Passion and Purpose: Acting, Relationships, and Self-Discovery
Hunter reflects on her personal growth, her evolving perspective on relationships, and her newfound passion for acting. She discusses the impact of infidelity on her self-perception as a trans woman, her unique perspective on monogamy and polyamory, and her experiences filming a horror movie.
Keywords
Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy is a popular podcast hosted by Alex Cooper, known for its candid and often controversial discussions about relationships, sex, and pop culture.
Hunter Shafer
Hunter Shafer is an American actress and model, known for her role as Jules Vaughn in the HBO drama series Euphoria. She is also an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and mental health awareness.
Euphoria
Euphoria is an American teen drama series that follows a group of high school students as they navigate love, loss, addiction, and trauma. The show has been praised for its realistic portrayal of teenage life and its exploration of complex social issues.
Transgender
Transgender is an umbrella term for people whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth. Transgender people may identify as male, female, non-binary, or genderfluid.
Queer
Queer is an umbrella term for sexual and gender minorities, including lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and other non-heteronormative identities.
Pastor
A pastor is a religious leader who provides spiritual guidance and leadership to a congregation. Pastors typically work in churches and other religious institutions.
North Carolina
North Carolina is a state located in the southeastern United States. It is known for its diverse geography, including mountains, beaches, and forests.
Hollywood
Hollywood is a district in Los Angeles, California, known as the center of the American film industry. It is synonymous with fame, fortune, and the entertainment industry.
Q&A
How did Hunter Shafer get cast in Euphoria?
Hunter was taking a gap year in modeling in New York when she got a casting call for Euphoria. She had no acting experience but was asked to play herself with lines. She went through several callbacks and eventually landed the role.
How did Hunter's parents react to her coming out as transgender?
Hunter's parents, who are both pastors, were initially hesitant to accept her trans identity. However, they eventually came to understand and support her, recognizing the impact her struggles were having on her mental health.
How does Hunter handle the public scrutiny of her romantic relationships?
Hunter has learned to not give much attention to public opinion about her relationships. She recognizes that people will always have something to say and that it's important to prioritize her own happiness and privacy.
What are some of the challenges Hunter has faced as a transgender person in the entertainment industry?
Hunter has faced challenges with being misgendered, being asked about her trans identity in interviews that are not relevant to her work, and dealing with negative comments and harassment online.
What is Hunter's perspective on dating both cis and trans people?
Hunter has dated both cis and trans people and has found that each experience has been unique. She has learned to navigate the complexities of dating as a transgender person and has found that it's important to find partners who understand and respect her identity.
How did the experience of infidelity impact your self-perception as a trans woman?
The speaker shares that the experience of infidelity led to a period of self-doubt and questioning their worthiness as a partner. They grappled with internalized transphobia and societal expectations, which contributed to the emotional turmoil they experienced.
What are the key differences between monogamy and polyamory from your perspective?
The speaker highlights that their initial understanding of relationships was rooted in polyamory and open communication. They found monogamy to be a different experience, both in terms of its challenges and its potential for intimacy and commitment.
What was the most challenging aspect of filming a horror movie?
The speaker mentions that filming in an abandoned military village at night was a particularly eerie experience. However, they emphasize the strong sense of community and support they felt from the cast and crew, which helped to mitigate any anxieties.
How has your approach to acting evolved over time?
The speaker initially viewed acting as a temporary means to support their career. However, through their experiences in \"You for You\" and other projects, they have developed a deep appreciation for the craft and discovered a passion for storytelling through performance.
Show Notes
Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Hunter Schafer. Hunter reveals why she is loving her current single era and how painful it was being cheated on for the first time. She discusses trying monogamy, why dating musicians is HARD, and what she’s looking for in her next relationship. Hunter also opens up about what it was like growing up as the pastor’s daughter in the South, her complicated relationship with fame, and how she wound up in Euphoria with no prior acting experience. Enjoy!