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Is AI Making Nice Guys Weaker?

Is AI Making Nice Guys Weaker?

Update: 2025-10-22
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You're on a date. She says something unexpected. You freeze. Your brain goes blank. So you excuse yourself to the bathroom… and ask ChatGPT what to say next.

Sound familiar?

In this raw and thought-provoking episode, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck dive into the complicated relationship between AI and masculinity. From flirty texts written by algorithms to essays no one remembers writing, we explore a dangerous new trend: cognitive debt.

In this episode, we tackle:
Why ChatGPT might be killing your creativity (and your dating life)
The hidden cost of letting AI do your thinking for you
How AI responses are trained on feminine narratives — and what that means for men
The difference between using AI as a tool vs. becoming dependent on it
Why your brain literally gets weaker when you outsource hard thinking
The future of relationships: Will men marry AI companions?
How to stay sharp, authentic, and "chocolate" (not lettuce) in a world of artificial intelligence

The uncomfortable truth? AI can make you look smarter in the short term — but it's eroding your self-worth, your memory, and your ability to handle real-life tension. And when you finally show up in person? She'll know something's off.

Whether you're a Nice Guy struggling with authenticity, an entrepreneur leaning too hard on AI, or just someone wondering if technology is helping or hurting — this conversation will challenge you.

It's time to reclaim your brain. Your creativity. Your edge.

Like. Comment. Subscribe. And share this with the guy who needs to put down ChatGPT and pick up a pen.

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https://masculine.co/
https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk

Connect with Chuck Chapman: 
https://chuckchapman.com/
https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/

Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
https://drarigraff.com/
https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
https://youtube.com/@AriGraff

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Is AI Making Nice Guys Weaker?

Is AI Making Nice Guys Weaker?

Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman