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Caitlin Bruso welcomes Joey and Kelsey, the latest Bachelor and his winner, to her podcast "Off the Vine." They discuss their experience in Nashville for CMA Fest, including Joey's hangover and his revelation about having Gilbert's Syndrome, a liver condition that causes worse hangovers. The conversation shifts to their experience on the show and how they're navigating the aftermath, including the constant interviews and the pressure of being in the public eye. They talk about their communication styles, highlighting their differences and how they've learned to work together. Kelsey shares her experience with the "Happy Couple" weekends, where she and Joey were locked up in a house for a weekend every few weeks, and how those weekends were both heaven and hell. They discuss their plans for the future, including having children and adopting at least one child. The episode concludes with a discussion about their relationship with social media and how they plan to be authentic and real with their followers.

Outlines

00:00:00

Introduction and Sponsors

This Chapter introduces the podcast "Off the Vine" and its host, Caitlin Bruso. It also features advertisements for Wayfair, BetterHelp, and Apartments.com.

00:00:13

Joey and Kelsey's Hangover and Gilbert's Syndrome

This Chapter begins with Caitlin Bruso interviewing Joey and Kelsey, the latest Bachelor and his winner. They discuss their experience in Nashville for CMA Fest, including Joey's hangover and his revelation about having Gilbert's Syndrome, a liver condition that causes worse hangovers.

00:04:11

Navigating the Aftermath of the Show

This Chapter delves into Joey and Kelsey's experience on the show and how they're navigating the aftermath, including the constant interviews and the pressure of being in the public eye. They talk about their communication styles, highlighting their differences and how they've learned to work together.

00:15:15

The Happy Couple Weekends

This Chapter focuses on Kelsey's experience with the "Happy Couple" weekends, where she and Joey were locked up in a house for a weekend every few weeks, and how those weekends were both heaven and hell.

00:32:01

Future Plans and Family

This Chapter explores Joey and Kelsey's plans for the future, including having children and adopting at least one child. They discuss their backgrounds and how their upbringing has shaped their views on family and adoption.

00:35:36

Social Media and Authenticity

This Chapter delves into Joey and Kelsey's relationship with social media and how they plan to be authentic and real with their followers. They discuss the challenges of navigating social media and the importance of sharing both the good and the bad.

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Q&A

• What is Gilbert's Syndrome and how does it affect Joey?

  Gilbert's Syndrome is a genetic condition that affects the liver's ability to process bilirubin, a yellow pigment that is a byproduct of the breakdown of red blood cells. This can lead to jaundice, a yellowing of the skin and eyes, and can also cause worse hangovers. Joey revealed that he has Gilbert's Syndrome, which explains why he experiences severe hangovers.

• How are Joey and Kelsey navigating the aftermath of being on The Bachelor?

  Joey and Kelsey are navigating the aftermath of the show by trying to maintain their normalcy and individuality outside of the show's spotlight. They are constantly doing interviews and facing public scrutiny, but they are trying to stay true to themselves and their relationship.

• What are Joey and Kelsey's communication styles like?

  Joey is more talkative and expressive, while Kelsey prefers to process things internally and then talk about them later. They have learned to adapt to each other's communication styles and to communicate in a way that works for both of them.

• What were the Happy Couple Weekends like for Kelsey and Joey?

  Kelsey describes the Happy Couple Weekends as both heaven and hell. They were a time for them to connect and get to know each other better, but they also had to deal with the emotional fallout from the show and the public scrutiny. They had to learn to give each other grace and to navigate difficult conversations.

• What are Joey and Kelsey's plans for the future?

  Joey and Kelsey are both open to having children and adopting at least one child. Kelsey grew up in a home where her mother fostered children, and she feels strongly about giving back to the foster care system. Joey also feels strongly about adoption and believes it is important to give children in need a loving home.

• How do Joey and Kelsey plan to show up on social media?

  Joey and Kelsey want to be authentic and real on social media, sharing both the good and the bad aspects of their relationship. They believe that it is important to show their followers that their relationship is not perfect and that they face challenges just like any other couple.

• What is one of the biggest hurdles that Joey and Kelsey have faced in their relationship?

  One of the biggest hurdles that Joey and Kelsey have faced is the negative feedback they received from some viewers after the show. Kelsey was particularly affected by this feedback and questioned her relationship with Joey. However, Joey reassured her that he was committed to her and that he would never choose anyone else. They also sought couples therapy to help them navigate this difficult time.

• What is the success rate of couples from The Bachelor?

  The success rate of couples from The Bachelor is very low. However, Caitlin Bruso points out that the success rate of relationships in general is also very low, so it is not surprising that many Bachelor couples do not last. She believes that the key to a successful relationship is respect, choosing each other, and believing in the relationship.

• What is one of the most important things that Joey and Kelsey have learned about their relationship?

  Joey and Kelsey have learned that it is important to choose each other every day, even when things are difficult. They are aware that their relationship is under a lot of scrutiny and that they are facing challenges that most couples do not, but they are committed to working through those challenges together.

• What is one of the most memorable moments from Joey and Kelsey's time on The Bachelor?

  Kelsey shares that their first kiss was memorable because it happened after a group date where she had gotten lightheaded and was eating crackers. Joey came to check on her and they ended up kissing, with Kelsey having a mouthful of crackers. They both laugh about the moment and how it was not shown on the show.

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