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Male Fragility: Why Accountability Feels Like an Attack | Ep. 007

Male Fragility: Why Accountability Feels Like an Attack | Ep. 007

Update: 2025-07-01
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Male fragility isn't weakness - it's emotional inflexibility that becomes a weapon to avoid accountability. When men explode over basic feedback, it's not about your tone or timing.

This week, I'm joined by anti-misogyny educator Brent MacLerie to unpack why so many men interpret accountability as an attack. We dive into the "honesty trap" that keeps women walking on eggshells, explore how fragility becomes a control tactic, and discuss the historical roots of male entitlement in relationships. Brent shares his insights on distinguishing between genuine emotional immaturity and weaponized fragility, plus the one key indicator that shows whether a man is capable of real change.

Resources Mentioned:

Lundy Bancroft’s checklist https://lundybancroft.com/articles/checklist-for-assessing-change-in-men-who-abuse-women/ 

Connect with Brent MacLerie:

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ex.patriarch and on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@expatriarch?lang=en 

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Male Fragility: Why Accountability Feels Like an Attack | Ep. 007

Male Fragility: Why Accountability Feels Like an Attack | Ep. 007

Lisa Sonni