Timestamps

00.20  Justin introduces Martine

01.20  How much screen time is too much?

02.15  What are they doing with their screen time?

03.56  What effect is screen time having on your child?

05.03  What are they missing out on?

06.58  The difference between screen use in boys & girls

09.20  The impact of social media on our girls

13.42  Social media pile-on

15.04  How do our daughters deal with media pile-on's?

16.20  Role play to walk your daughter through

20.45  When a comment becomes personal & "judgey", we need to be able to take a step back

21.17  So much of what happens on social media is pointless

21.43  Emotional vortex

22.15  Instead of replying on social media, connect in person

24.32  Take a step back and think before posting

25.37  Risks of using social media

26.45  How to set up our girls for success on social media

28.05  No screens in bedrooms late at night

28.42  Make sure you have plenty of time without screens during the day

29.13  We need to set up a house in a way that mirrors the values we want 

31.05  Have a conversation about why you have screen rules

32.44  Look at what's important to you as a family

33.13  Try to just ween it back a little bit

34.19  Teaching our girls to build boundaries

36.37  Positive ways that we can use our devices and/or social media

39.49  How should parents respond when things go wrong?

41.45  Conversations more than consequences

42.23  Take home message

Martine Oglethorpe

Martine Oglethorpe is a speaker, author, educator and Trusted eSafety Provider with the Office of the eSafety Commission. She has a background in secondary education, a Masters in Counselling and most importantly, is mother to 5 boys. Through her personal and professional work with families she recognises the important role technology plays in the social and emotional wellbeing of young people.

Martine is a keynote speaker for parenting and education conferences, presents to parent groups, works regularly with students and provides professional development to teachers. She has a passionate interest in helping schools and families safely navigate the modern world of parenting in a way that offers understanding, as well as practical and realistic strategies to empower parents and schools to teach, guide and support their children, students and communities. Her new book The Modern Parent: Raising a great kid in the digital world is out now and can be purchased from the website themodernparent.net.

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