On this episode of the AllPaths podcast, we invite Meg to share her continuing journey through recurrent miscarriages, unsuccessful fertility treatments, and an unflagging quest for answers. Meg, who runs "For the Barreness”, a infertility-focused blog and Instagram account, delves into her experience with seven miscarriages and eight rounds of IVF, highlighting the emotional and physical toll of recurrent losses, including the infrequently discussed postpartum experiences after miscarriage. Meg also shares the long road to receiving diagnoses of endometriosis, adenomyosis, autoimmune disorders, and a Müllerian Abnormality, several that were conditions she suspected she was dealing with for years due to severe menstrual pain, but was dismissed by medical professionals until after her recurrent losses.

Meg elaborates on the creation of "For the Barreness," which she initially started out of loneliness in order to connect with others experiencing similar challenges, explaining how the name "Barreness" reclaims the often hurtful word "barren" to signify strength and regality within the community. The platform has grown into a vibrant online space where people offer mutual support, share stories, and find validation for difficult emotions such as anger and jealousy. Throughout our conversation, Meg also talks about other strategies and tools that she’s found to be helpful along this path, including finding a therapist with a fertility background who provides direct guidance and her love of reading "smutty fantasy" books as a form of escapism. Meg remains hopeful about the future and continues to grow the “For the Barreness” community, celebrating the resilience and beauty of all family building paths and outcomes.

To connect with Meg at For the Barreness, visit https://www.forthebarreness.com/ or @for_the_barreness on Instagram.

And if you are looking for support and resources around Recurrent Pregnancy Loss, we highly recommend checking on the nonprofit Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Association: https://rplassociation.org/

TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:

TTC, endometriosis, adenomyosis, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, fertility treatment, IVF, recurrent pregnancy loss, reproductive endocrinologist, reproductive immunologist, recurrent loss specialist, patient advocacy, self-advocacy, education, therapy, books, romantasy books, escapism, toxic positivity, Meg Faith, For the Barreness, family building, fertility struggles, miscarriage support, recurrent miscarriage, endometriosis awareness, IVF journey, emotional support for infertility, parenting without children, community for infertility, overcoming fertility challenges, navigating family planning, resources for miscarriage, pregnancy loss awareness, building a family after loss, mental health and fertility, infertility and grief, reproductive health education, support groups for infertility, chronic illness and pregnancy, finding hope after loss