DiscoverThe 3L’s PodcastMoney, Housework & Headspace: The Real Balance Test |The 3L's Podcast Ep 11
Money, Housework & Headspace: The Real Balance Test |The 3L's Podcast Ep 11

Money, Housework & Headspace: The Real Balance Test |The 3L's Podcast Ep 11

Update: 2025-10-09
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We get real about emotional labour, who holds the calendar, the kids’ headspace, and all the invisible jobs, versus financial load. Why our 80/20 split works, how Dubai and house help factor in, and the difference between protecting your kids and preparing them for the real world.


We unpack what “mental load” really looks like in marriage: who schedules, who soothes, who shapes the kids’ minds, and how that balances against paying the bills. We talk skill sets, seasons, redundancy, appreciation, and why “traditional” roles can still be teamwork. And of course… a spicy dilemma: he went to his ex’s baby shower without telling his wife, innocent oversight or emotional neglect?


💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions! ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

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Money, Housework & Headspace: The Real Balance Test |The 3L's Podcast Ep 11

Money, Housework & Headspace: The Real Balance Test |The 3L's Podcast Ep 11

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