Episode Overview
In this episode we sit down with Nitika, founder of Aila Money, to explore the deep and complicated ties between money and self-worth. From growing up with scarcity to chasing salaries as proof of success, Nitika shares her journey of redefining what financial security really means. We also unpack why the gender wealth gap persists, how confidence and representation shape women’s financial choices, and what it takes to separate your paycheck from your value.

Key Discussion Points

• How early messages linked money to security and self-worth.
• Choosing impact and joy over maximising income.
• Why the gender wealth gap still exists - and the role of self-worth in it.
• The “motherhood tax” and how it ties worth to income.
• Why women actually outperform men when they invest.

Listener Takeaways

• Self-worth and salary are not the same thing - your value isn’t measured in paychecks.
• Confidence and representation matter: if you don’t see it, it’s harder to believe you can be it.
• Money is a tool, not an identity. It gives you choices, freedom, and the ability to design your life.
• Women who invest often outperform men - the challenge is building the confidence to begin.

Links to Aila Money 

https://www.instagram.com/ailamoney

https://www.instagram.com/nitika_moneypt

Aila Money’s 75-Day Financial Fitness Challenge

https://luma.com/4zrg3jiu?locale=en-GB

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