When dealing with the Ruby Slipper Syndrome, one can find that negativity seems to rule.  It rules the heart, mind, thoughts, and eventually that negative comes oozing out somehow and that somehow is usually through words.  And despite the initial relief of a good “word vomit” eventually those words come back to bite! Charity & Toni are by no means master tongue tamers, but they are trying their best.  And in their effort, they've learned some things that you might just find helpful. So let's tackle this ugly symptom together. 
Book Reference - The Bait of Satan: Living Free from the Deadly Trap of Offense by John Bevere
Proverbs 18:21 | Romans 1:28-31 | 1 Peter 3:10 | Colossians 4:6 | Ephesians 4:29 | Proverbs 10:19 | Proverbs 15:28 | James 1:19-26 | James  3:5-10 | Proverbs 15:1-2