On this week's bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes you on a deeply personal journey through sexual liberation, self-reflection, and the evolving dynamics of love. She begins by discussing what personal progression looks like beyond appearances [00:00 ], before unpacking the emotional layers of shame, regret, and how they fuel growth [02:57 ].

The conversation dives into the interplay of money, sex, and self-worth, exploring how transactional relationships shaped her self-perception [05:49 ], and the emotional complexity behind romantic entanglements and blurred boundaries [08:44 ]. Mandii reflects on past choices that once carried guilt but now serve as milestones of learning[11:59 ].

She candidly shares her experience as a side chick [14:51 ] and how it informed her understanding of love, betrayal, and resilience [17:47 ]. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength as she explores how openness can lead to empowerment[20:43 ], especially when revisiting the imprint of past relationships [23:41 ].

Through stories of heartbreak [26:34 ] and hard-earned lessons about the role money plays in intimacy [29:10 ], Mandii moves toward a place of self-acceptance and grace [32:13 ]. She emphasizes the power of setting boundaries in romantic and personal growth [35:08 ], and navigates the nuanced realities of non-monogamous dynamics [37:42 ].

The episode closes with a reflective chapter on loss, letting go, and the love that remains after the end [40:53 ]—reminding listeners that healing, though messy, is also transformational. 

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