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Not Having Sex With Your Partner? Watch This (3 Sex Therapist Approved Fixes)

Not Having Sex With Your Partner? Watch This (3 Sex Therapist Approved Fixes)

Update: 2025-10-30
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about desire discrepancy in couples, why it happens, and practical ways to address it through communication, scheduling, and creating a positive sexual vibe.

00:38 Understanding Desire Discrepancy – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how desire discrepancy occurs when one partner wants sex more than the other and how it's common but can create tension if ignored.

06:46 Strategies for Scheduling Sex – They explain the importance of agreeing on a sexual frequency, like once or twice a week, to keep couples in sync and maintain intimacy.

14:01 Navigating Desire Discrepancies in Relationships – The hosts talk about balancing differences in sexual desire, helping partners feel understood, and addressing resentment before it escalates.

16:25 The Importance of Communication and Initiation – They emphasize taking turns initiating sex, openly discussing preferences, and creating a safe, non-judgmental environment for both partners.

22:59 Creating a Positive Sexual Experience – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler highlight cultivating a good sexual "vibe," showing passion and connection, and helping lower-desire partners engage fully for enjoyable intimacy.

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon

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Not Having Sex With Your Partner? Watch This (3 Sex Therapist Approved Fixes)

Not Having Sex With Your Partner? Watch This (3 Sex Therapist Approved Fixes)

Dr. Marianne Brandon and Dr. Abraham Morgentaler