For decades, churches have built youth ministries around entertainment and behavior management. But what if all the data says that’s the wrong approach?

In this powerful episode, Dr. Anthony Bradley joins Dru Johnson to reflect on 25 years of experience working with youth, revisiting the PBS documentary Raising Cain and what it reveals about the neglected emotional lives of boys. He shares stories from his time as a high school teacher, where the boys most emotionally adrift weren’t from broken homes—but from Christian families.

Bradley argues that youth ministry has largely failed, citing data showing a 50–60% dropout rate among church youth group kids. “What the data shows is that spiritual formation happens at home,” he says. “And instead of churches focusing on the youth, they need to be focusing on Malachi 4:6.”

He calls for churches to replace youth isolation with intergenerational community. “They need to physically experience almost in a sacramental sort of sense what a godly family is.” Boys don’t just need Bible studies—they need fathers, mentors, uncles, and grandfathers.

This episode is an urgent wake-up call to rethink how we raise boys, how we disciple families, and how the church can once again become the place for forming whole people.

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Chapters

00:00 The Impact of 'Raising Cain' on Understanding Boys

02:59 Cultural Shifts in Masculinity and Education

05:43 The Emotional Lives of Boys

08:39 The Crisis of Boys in Education

11:34 Masculinity and Emotional Expression

14:38 The Role of Culture in Defining Masculinity

17:39 Christian Perspectives on Masculinity

20:24 Historical Context of Masculinity in Christianity

25:44 The Shift in Youth Ministry Focus

28:29 The Role of Parents in Faith Formation

32:21 Creating Family-Centric Church Activities

35:18 The Importance of Intergenerational Relationships

40:16 Integrating Youth into Family Life

45:07 The Need for Community and Mentorship

50:52 Long-Term Faith Development and Patience