Our 2025 Gift Guide
Digest
The hosts kick off the episode with holiday excitement and personal highs, including a successful Friendsgiving and early festive spirit. They delve into a "low" involving a fridge door left ajar, leading to spoiled food and a shared frustration with their current refrigerators. The conversation shifts to creative gift ideas, presented in a new "coded" format: "Becca-coded" for NYC lovers, "Olivia-coded" for thrifters and antique enthusiasts, and "BadOnPaper-coded" for bookish gifts. Specific recommendations span various interests, including hobbies, Pisces traits, travel, Real Housewives fans, hosts, candle lovers, writers, and unique "wild card" items. The episode concludes with book reviews of "Sky Daddy," "A Good Person," and recommendations for thrillers like "I'm Glad My Mom Died," alongside audiobooks and novels such as "I Wrote This for Attention" and "Daddy Issues," and the November book club pick, "The Correspondent."
Outlines

Holiday Kick-off and Fridge Fiasco
Becca and Olivia share their excitement for the holiday season and personal highs, including Olivia's successful Friendsgiving. They recount a fridge mishap where the door was left ajar, leading to spoiled food and a shared dislike for their current refrigerators.

Unique Remedies and Gift Guide Introduction
Olivia shares her struggle with monthly cramps and Becca suggests an experimental pickle juice remedy. After an ad break, they introduce their new gift guide format: "Becca-coded," "Olivia-coded," and "BadOnPaper-coded" picks.

Curated Gift Ideas: NYC, Thrifting, Hobbies, and Pisces
Becca offers gift ideas for NYC lovers, while Olivia suggests gifts for thrifters, antique enthusiasts, and those with various hobbies like watercolor or pickleball. Olivia also provides gift ideas tailored for Pisces individuals.

Travel, Reality TV, and Host Gift Suggestions
Following a Quince advertisement, Becca shares travel-themed gift ideas, including luggage and travel pillows. Olivia suggests gifts for "Real Housewives" fans and thoughtful presents for hosts.

Gifts for Candle Lovers, Bookworms, and Writers
Becca recommends gifts for candle enthusiasts and book lovers, featuring unique candles, antique match strikers, and bookish items. She also provides gift ideas for aspiring writers, complemented by Olivia's suggestion for a stylish laptop case.

Wild Card Gifts and Personal Obsessions
Olivia shares unique "wild card" gift ideas like custom bag charms and embroidered hats. The hosts then discuss their current obsessions: Olivia's new red glasses and Becca's love for Audrey Hobart's album.

Book Reviews and Thriller Recommendations
Becca reviews "Sky Daddy" by Kate Folk, and Olivia discusses "A Good Person" by Kirsten King. They rave about a dark, humorous thriller, comparing its protagonist to Amy Dunne from "Gone Girl."

Audiobook, Novel, and Book Club Picks
The hosts recommend the audiobook "I Wrote This for Attention" by Lucas Gage and the novel "Daddy Issues" by Kate Goldbeck. They announce the November book club pick, "The Correspondent" by Virginia Evans.
Keywords
Holiday Spirit
The feeling of joy, warmth, and festivity associated with the holiday season, often involving decorations, music, and gift-giving.
Friendsgiving
A portmanteau of "friends" and "Thanksgiving," referring to a Thanksgiving celebration hosted by friends rather than family.
Fridge Fiasco
A humorous term for a situation involving a refrigerator malfunction, such as a door left ajar, leading to spoiled food.
Pickle Juice for Cramps
An unconventional home remedy suggesting that consuming pickle juice can alleviate menstrual cramps.
Gift Guide
A curated list of recommended products or items, often categorized by recipient, price, or theme, intended to assist shoppers.
"Becca-Coded" Gifts
Gift recommendations that align with Becca's personal style, interests, and preferences.
"Olivia-Coded" Gifts
Gift suggestions tailored to Olivia's unique aesthetic and interests, particularly her love for thrifting and antiques.
Thrifting
The practice of buying second-hand goods, often at thrift stores or flea markets, associated with finding unique items and sustainable shopping.
Hobby Gifts
Presents specifically chosen to support or enhance a person's hobby or leisure activity.
Travel Gifts
Items designed for or inspired by travel, including practical accessories for journeys or comfort items for long trips.
Bookish Gifts
Presents for avid readers, including books, reading accessories, or literary-themed merchandise.
Writer Gifts
Items useful or inspiring for individuals who write, such as stationery, writing tools, or books on writing craft.
Audrey Hobart
An artist whose album "Who's the Clown" is praised for its fun, pop, and "girly" sound.
Sky Daddy by Kate Folk
A novel about a woman with a sexual attraction to planes, described as surprisingly tender and unique.
A Good Person by Kirsten King
A novel focusing on an extremely unlikable, toxic, and narcissistic protagonist who hires an Etsy witch.
"I'm Glad My Mom Died"
A thriller novel featuring a dark, humorous, and honest portrayal of a complex main character, drawing comparisons to Amy Dunne from "Gone Girl."
"I Wrote This for Attention" by Lucas Gage
An audiobook narrated by actor Lucas Gage, focusing on his troubled youth and praised for its unflinching honesty.
"Daddy Issues" by Kate Goldbeck
A contemporary romance novel with a Gen Z protagonist navigating post-pandemic life and relationships.
"The Correspondent" by Virginia Evans
A novel told entirely through epistolary formats (letters, notes, emails), exploring themes of family, loss, and resilience.
Q&A
What are some unique gift ideas for people who love New York City?
Consider tea towels with iconic NYC designs from Katie Keim, embroidered cocktail napkins featuring NYC motifs from Sheffany, or custom ink drawings of specific restaurants by John Donahue.
What are good gift ideas for someone who enjoys thrifting and finding antique treasures?
Suggest frames from Goodwill, vintage items found on eBay or Etsy by searching for hobbies combined with "antique" or "vintage," or plan a curated thrifting day experience as a gift.
What are some thoughtful gift ideas for Pisces individuals?
Pisces often appreciate sentimental gifts like personalized playlists of shared favorite songs, miniature oil paintings of ocean scenes, or framed ephemera such as old notes or tickets.
What are some gift suggestions for fans of "The Real Housewives"?
Consider beaded coin purses with iconic quotes, "Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" themed ornaments, or even a personalized Cameo video from a favorite cast member.
What are some creative gift ideas for people who love to host gatherings?
Options include Dan Pelosi's entertaining cookbook "Let's Party," stylish striped snack bowls from Anthropologie, or unique Apertivo Spoon sets with charming designs from stores like Big Night.
What are some unique gift ideas for someone who loves candles?
Consider the "Library in a Forest" candle from Savant, antique French match strikers for a vintage touch, or unique candlestick holders found on Etsy or eBay, perhaps paired with colorful taper candles.
What are good gift ideas for book lovers?
Consider signed first editions of modern classics, themed mugs from brands like Bando, or gifting a personal favorite book to share the reading experience.
What are some thoughtful gift ideas for aspiring writers?
Gifts could include a set of quality pens like Le Pens, a nice notebook, or influential books on writing craft such as "Save the Cat! Writes a Novel" or "Story Genius."
What are some unique "wild card" gift ideas that are personalized and memorable?
Consider customized beaded bag charms or embroidered hats from Etsy, personalized makeup pouches from brands like Bobble Bar, or quirky ornaments like a glittery buffalo wing.
What are some interesting book recommendations for someone looking for something different?
"Sky Daddy" by Kate Folk offers a unique narrative about a woman attracted to planes, described as surprisingly tender. "A Good Person" by Kirsten King presents a dark story about a highly unlikeable protagonist.
What is the main character like in the thriller the speaker enjoyed?
The main character is described as horrible and unlikeable, yet honest and captivating, reminding the speaker of Amy Dunne from "Gone Girl." The book is a dark, weird, and funny thriller with a twist.
What are the two books the speaker is currently reading/listening to?
The speaker is listening to the audiobook "I Wrote This for Attention" by Lucas Gage, which focuses on his troubled youth, and reading the novel "Daddy Issues" by Kate Goldbeck, a Gen Z romance with a Chili's connection.
What is the book club's selection for November?
The November book club pick is "The Correspondent" by Virginia Evans. It's a novel told through letters and emails, exploring themes of family, loss, and resilience, suitable for a cozy read.
Show Notes
It's time for this year's Bad on Paper Gift Guide! We're so excited to dive into our picks that are very us-coded.
Becca-Coded Picks
Gifts for People Who Love NYC
Katie Kime NYC Toile Tea Towels ($58)
Chefanie - I Love NY cocktail napkins ($48)
All the restaurants prints (5x7 $55) - John Donahue - also Paris, London, DC, Philly, Chicago, Napa
W/ Hudson & Mark acrylic frame (A5 size) - Reg $44, sale: $35
Hobby-Forward Gifts (Knitting, Watercolors, Pickleball, MahJong etc.)
Emily Lex Studio Watercolor Books ($24) + Optional paint set ($18)
Mark & Graham Pickleball Tote (Reg $79, Current $59)
Pickle playing Pickleball Ornament ($25)
Pickleball snack serving plate ($58)
We Are Knitters Scarf Kit - Stan Scarf (Reg $74, Current $52) or Dinka Scarf (Reg: $55, Current $39)
Gifts for People Who Love to Travel
Dagne Dover Landon Carry On Duffel - Lg - (Reg: $240, sale $180)
Etsy watercolor print of a fave city/destination
Turtl pillow - (regular $55, sale $44)
Gifts for People Who Love to Host
Dan Pelosi Let's Party Cookbook (32.62)
Anthro striped snack bowls ($18 for 2)
Apertivo Spoon Set - $36
Olivia-Coded Picks
Gifts for Thrifters/Antique Lovers
Frames + Photos, choose their own adventure
Search hobbies or interests on Etsy or Ebay + 'vintage'
Planning a thrifting "day" - Choose a handful of different secondhand stores, stop for a coffee, make a day of it.
Gifts for Pisces
Hand curated playlist - "these songs remind me of you/us and why"
Anything sentimental
Gifts for Real Housewives Fans
Gifts for Candle Lovers
Library in a Forest Candle from the New Savant
Antique french match striker (etsy)
eBay/etsy candle stick holders + taper candles
Bad on Paper Coded Picks
Bookish Gifts
Gift your favorite book of the year or a book you think the recipient would love
Signed first edition of favorite books (modern classics aren't wildly expensive usually)... also, reach out to their favorite authors!
Writer-ish Gifts
Le Pen 10-color set ($19.99) + a notebook
Save the Cat Writes A Novel (16.78) + Story Genius (16.77) + a notebook for their own ideas
Cajou Alba Laptop Cover w/ Initials
Wild Card Gifts
For teen: BaubleBar custom makeup pouch ($38) + a lip balm
Buffalo chicken ornament ($24)
Obsessions
Becca - Who's the Clown? by Audrey Hobert
Olivia - My new glasses!
What we read this week
Olivia - Sky Daddy by Kate Folk, A Good Person by Kirsten King
Becca - I Wrote this for Attention by Lukas Gage, Daddy Issues by Kate Goldbeck
This Month's Book Club Pick - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans (have thoughts about this book you want to share? Call in at 843-405-3157 or email us a voice memo at badonpaperpodcast@gmail.com)
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