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Part 7: Monica & Jess Love Goblins with Esther Perel

Part 7: Monica & Jess Love Goblins with Esther Perel

Update: 2020-03-257
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In Part 7: Monica & Jess Love Goblins with Esther Perel, M and J are thrilled to welcome psychotherapist, Esther Perel to the attic. Esther makes the distinction between love and desire and she reminds them that having a lot of sex with many partners is equivalent to avoiding sex- both are methods to avoid rejection. Esther encourages Monica to let go of the goblin on her shoulder and she removes the phrase "losing feelings for" from the relationship vocabulary. The three talk about "want" vs. "should" and Esther is intrigued by Jess's interactions with "out of my league guy". Esther does exercises with M and J on how to spark desire and she gently tells them if they don't let go of their narratives, regardless of who they date, they will always be dating their narrative.
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Azmeer Sharipol

This is such an amazing episode! Thank you Monica and Jess.

Apr 9th
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Part 7: Monica & Jess Love Goblins with Esther Perel

Part 7: Monica & Jess Love Goblins with Esther Perel

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