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Pastor Kills “Sister-Wife” After She Gave Birth to Their Baby: The Case of Marie Carlson

Pastor Kills “Sister-Wife” After She Gave Birth to Their Baby: The Case of Marie Carlson

Update: 2024-07-046
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This episode delves into the perplexing case of Marie Carlson, a woman who was found dead in the backyard of her friend and pastor, James Flanders. The investigation revealed a complex web of relationships, including a polygamist arrangement between Marie, James, and his wife, Tanya. Marie had been struggling with mental health issues and had sought refuge with the Flanders, who initially claimed to be adopting her baby. However, rumors circulated about a surrogacy agreement, and Tanya's close friends revealed a different story, suggesting that Marie was actually a sister-wife to both James and Tanya. The case took a dramatic turn when Marie disappeared, leaving behind a cryptic text message. Detectives investigated the Flanders, uncovering inconsistencies in their accounts and suspicious cell phone records. Ultimately, James was arrested and charged with second-degree murder, but a plea deal was reached in exchange for the location of Marie's body. James confessed to killing Marie during a physical altercation, claiming it was an accident. He was sentenced to 15 years for manslaughter, and Marie's body was found buried in the Flanders' backyard. The episode raises questions about Tanya's involvement and the ongoing custody battle for Marie's daughter, Grace, who remains in the care of the Flanders.

Outlines

00:00:00
Introduction

This Chapter introduces the case of Marie Carlson and the podcast host, Kendall Ray, expresses her shock and sadness over the details of the case.

00:01:21
Marie Carlson's Life

This Chapter provides background information on Marie Carlson's life, including her childhood, her relationship with her sister Esther, her marriage to Jeff Carlson, and her struggles with mental health.

00:08:43
Marie's Involvement with the Flanders

This Chapter details Marie's relationship with James and Tanya Flanders, who were the pastors of Calvary Emerald Coast Church. It describes how Marie became involved in the church, moved into their home, and eventually became pregnant with James's child.

00:14:53
Marie's Disappearance

This Chapter focuses on Marie's disappearance, which began with a cryptic text message sent to her loved ones. Her sister and ex-husband became concerned and reported her missing.

00:22:21
The Flanders' Statements

This Chapter examines the statements given by James and Tanya Flanders to the authorities. James claimed that Marie agreed to be a surrogate for their child and that they conceived the baby through traditional means. Tanya confirmed James's account and revealed that they were in a polygamist relationship with Marie.

00:31:43
The Investigation

This Chapter details the investigation into Marie's disappearance, which included examining cell phone records, conducting interviews, and searching the Flanders' property. The evidence pointed towards James as a suspect, and he eventually fled with Tanya and their baby.

00:38:40
The Breakthrough

This Chapter describes the anonymous tip that led to the discovery of Marie's body. Despite an initial search, her body was not found, and the case stalled for a year. However, advancements in forensic technology allowed detectives to re-examine Marie's laptop, which revealed incriminating evidence.

00:42:12
The Plea Deal and Resolution

This Chapter recounts James's arrest and the plea deal that was offered in exchange for the location of Marie's body. James confessed to killing Marie during a physical altercation and was sentenced to 15 years for manslaughter. Marie's body was finally recovered from the Flanders' backyard.

Keywords

Marie Carlson


Marie Carlson was the victim in this case. She was a woman who struggled with mental health issues and sought refuge with James and Tanya Flanders. She became pregnant with James's child and was later found dead in their backyard.

James Flanders


James Flanders was the pastor of Calvary Emerald Coast Church and a friend of Marie Carlson. He was involved in a polygamist relationship with both Marie and his wife, Tanya. He was convicted of manslaughter for Marie's death and is currently serving a 15-year sentence.

Tanya Flanders


Tanya Flanders was the wife of James Flanders and a pastor at Calvary Emerald Coast Church. She was involved in a polygamist relationship with both James and Marie. While she was not charged with any crime, her involvement in the case remains a subject of speculation.

Polygamy


Polygamy is the practice of having more than one spouse at the same time. In this case, James Flanders was in a polygamist relationship with both Marie Carlson and his wife, Tanya. This aspect of the case added a layer of complexity and raised questions about the nature of their relationships.

Surrogacy


Surrogacy is an arrangement where a woman agrees to carry and give birth to a child for another person or couple. In this case, James and Tanya Flanders initially claimed that Marie was their surrogate, but later admitted that she was their sister-wife.

Sister-Wife


A sister-wife is a woman who is married to two or more brothers or to a man and his brother. In this case, Tanya Flanders claimed that Marie was her sister-wife, meaning that they were both married to James Flanders.

True Crime


True crime is a genre of media that focuses on real-life crimes and their investigations. This podcast episode falls under the true crime genre, as it explores the details of Marie Carlson's murder and the subsequent investigation.

Murder


Murder is the unlawful killing of another human being with malice aforethought. In this case, James Flanders was convicted of manslaughter for the death of Marie Carlson.

Manslaughter


Manslaughter is the unlawful killing of another human being without malice aforethought. It can be voluntary, meaning that the killing was intentional but without malice, or involuntary, meaning that the killing was unintentional but due to negligence or recklessness. In this case, James Flanders pleaded guilty to manslaughter.

Forensic Technology


Forensic technology is the application of scientific methods and techniques to investigate crimes. In this case, advancements in forensic technology allowed detectives to re-examine Marie's laptop and uncover incriminating evidence.

Q&A

  • What was the nature of the relationship between Marie Carlson, James Flanders, and Tanya Flanders?

    James and Tanya Flanders were in a polygamist relationship with Marie Carlson. They initially claimed that Marie was their surrogate, but later admitted that she was their sister-wife.

  • What was the motive for Marie Carlson's murder?

    James Flanders claimed that Marie attacked him after he told her she needed to be hospitalized for her depression. He said he gave her a bear hug, which resulted in her death. However, the circumstances surrounding her death remain unclear, and some believe that Marie may have changed her mind about the surrogacy arrangement and wanted to keep her baby.

  • What role did Tanya Flanders play in Marie Carlson's death?

    Tanya Flanders was not charged with any crime related to Marie's death. However, her involvement in the case remains a subject of speculation, particularly given her knowledge of the polygamist relationship and her alleged statement that she could kill Marie.

  • What happened to Marie Carlson's daughter, Grace?

    Grace remains in the care of Tanya Flanders. Marie's sister has petitioned for guardianship of Grace, but she remains with the Flanders. Marie's loved ones are allowed to have calls and occasional visitation with Grace.

  • What was the outcome of the investigation into Marie Carlson's death?

    James Flanders was convicted of manslaughter and sentenced to 15 years in prison. He is expected to be released in 2029. Tanya Flanders was not charged with any crime.

Show Notes

Marie Carlson was going through tough times battling her mental health when she met James and Tanya Flanders. James, who was the pastor of a local church, took Marie in and began helping her pay her bills and eventually allowed her to move in with him and his wife. All seemed to be going well… that is until Marie became pregnant. Rumors circulated about whose baby it was, but eventually, the truth came out. James, Tanya, and Marie were in a polygamist relationship, and the baby was his. After baby Grace was born though, things started to go downhill. Marie no longer liked the arrangement they had, and she wanted out. But rather than let her walk away, James did the unthinkable.



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Pastor Kills “Sister-Wife” After She Gave Birth to Their Baby: The Case of Marie Carlson

Pastor Kills “Sister-Wife” After She Gave Birth to Their Baby: The Case of Marie Carlson

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