Playing with the Unexpected with Laura & Izzy
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Playing with the Unexpected
with Laura & Izzy
(Season 4 | Episode 171)
[Tessa] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast we’re playing with the unexpected!
What a rich conversation with Laura and Izzy!! This is a dynamic couple who embody the evolving landscape of relationships after Laura’s children left the nest. The discussion dives deep into the challenges and triumphs of navigating life in Act 3, exploring themes of family obligations, autonomy, and the complexities of a non-traditional partnership.
Laura, previously married with two grown children and grandchildren, reflects on her relationship with Izzy, whom she has been with for 16 years. Their journey has required patience and understanding, particularly as Laura managed her close ties to her family while Izzy approached life with different expectations rooted in his experience as a non-parent. We delve into the intricacies of cohabitation without marriage, highlighting how their relationship has thrived through clear communication and mutual respect despite their differing family circumstances.
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Izzy Gesell, M.ED, CSP (Certified Speaking Professional)Organization Alchemist, Humorologist, Facilitator, Keynoter, AuthorLet’s Connect Book a 20 minute meeting
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Izzy shares his perspective, illustrating the tension that can arise when balancing individual desires with the practicalities of shared life. The couple discusses how they created a shared entity in their relationship, recognizing that their individual needs sometimes conflict. They candidly address the challenges they faced and how they overcame them, culminating in their unique framework of coexistence that honors their individuality while allowing for shared dreams.
A significant turning point in their relationship came when Laura embraced the idea of polyamory, which Izzy had been interested in exploring. The two recount their thoughtful journey towards opening up their relationship—how they set parameters, communicated openly about their feelings, and navigated jealousy. Laura recalls the growth in her understanding of Izzy’s needs, leading her to realize that his relationship with another partner could actually enhance her own experience.
WRAPPING UP (PLAYING WITH THE UNEXPECTED)
We also talk through the role of improvisation in their lives, exploring how the principles of applied improv can serve as a valuable tool for navigating uncertainty and change in relationships. Through playful interactions, we illustrate the essence of “yes, and” thinking—tapping into curiosity and openness instead of rigid expectations.
This attitude has allowed Laura and Izzy to adapt to life’s unpredictable nature with humor, resilience, and authenticity.
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