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Quickie w/ Julie: What Relational Intelligence Looks Like In Early Dating

Quickie w/ Julie: What Relational Intelligence Looks Like In Early Dating

Update: 2026-01-18
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We talk about the need for emotional intelligence all the time, but what about relational intelligence? In many ways, it's as important or if not more! In today's episode, Julie's taking about the 5 stages of Relational Intelligence and how to put them into motion when applied to the common dating scenario of someone you're into not texting or setting up plans as quickly as you'd like. Julie shares why regulating before you act is so important, the type of text you can send to get the clarity you need, and how to move forward with this information. Enjoy!

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Quickie w/ Julie: What Relational Intelligence Looks Like In Early Dating

Quickie w/ Julie: What Relational Intelligence Looks Like In Early Dating

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick