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Rich Men, Poor Men: The Double Standard of Marrying Up - EP. 4

Rich Men, Poor Men: The Double Standard of Marrying Up - EP. 4

Update: 2025-07-25
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What happens when gender roles collide with wealth and opportunity? Can anyone truly marry up, or is this path primarily available to women? We're sipping Wolford Reserve Double Oated bourbon and enjoying Man O' War Abomination cigars while tackling society's double standards around relationships and economic status.

Starting with Chris Rock's famous bit about beautiful women working at Burger King being able to marry millionaires, we explore why the reverse scenario seems so rare. Why do we celebrate women who "marry up" but question men who attempt the same? Our conversation digs into how Hollywood has shaped these perceptions, from Pretty Woman to How Stella Got Her Groove Back, revealing the unspoken rules about who gets to climb the social ladder through marriage.

The discussion takes an unexpected turn when we dive into Nelly's controversial decision to tell Ashanti he won't participate in raising their child until the baby can walk and talk. This sparks a passionate debate about fatherhood, responsibility, and whether wealth allows celebrities to skip the crucial bonding periods of early parenthood. As fathers ourselves, we don't hold back our opinions on what this means for both Nelly and his child.

Throughout the episode, we weave in Detroit pride with updates on the Tigers' impressive season, speculate about the Lions' Super Bowl chances, and share laughs about everything from bikini football to slap fighting competitions. It's the perfect blend of serious social commentary and the lighthearted banter you've come to expect from us.

Whether you agree with our takes or want to challenge them, we want to hear from you. Reach out to us at puffanddrinks@gmail.com or find us on YouTube. Remember to sip soon, sip smooth, and always sip with us—but not too much!

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Rich Men, Poor Men: The Double Standard of Marrying Up - EP. 4

Rich Men, Poor Men: The Double Standard of Marrying Up - EP. 4

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