Young men are struggling in silence – and it's costing them their future.  Depression, disconnection, and a quiet sense of not belonging are rising, while academic performance is dropping and many are retreating from community instead of moving toward it.

This episode isn't about blame.  It's about understanding what's happening, why it matters, and how we as parents–and especially as mothers–can help our sons navigate a shifting definition of masculinity.  Drawing from personal stories, generational perspectives, and parenting experiences, Chrissie explores how to create space for boys to grow into men with presence, confidence, and resilience.

You'll Learn:

• Why boys are caught between outdated and emerging definitions of masculinity
• How generational shifts reveal new layers of strength, presence, and authenticity
• Why failure is not weakness but the foundation of resilience and growth
• How sports, physical strength, and responsibility build confidence without aggression
• The role parents–especially mothers–play in modeling peace, self-trust, and accountability

Key Takeaways:

• Masculinity without vulnerability leaves boys disconnected
• Failure reframed as "what did you learn?" creates resilience
• Physical strength supports emotional and mental strength
• Parenting is less about correction and more about holding space
• The most powerful lesson: our sons don't need rescuing–they need belief and presence

Timestamps:

00:00 - The Quiet Crisis of Young Men

01:28 - Generational shifts in masculinity

06:04 - Reframing failure as resilience

07:17 - Hockey story – growth through setbacks

08:47 - Social media and impossible standards

10:31 - Parenting with presence and trust

14:21 - Physical strength, confidence, and responsibility

17:17 - Redefining happiness as peace and resilience

21:13 - Parenting tools – listening without fixing

25:52 - Signs of transformation in boys

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Hosted by Chrissie Morgan – Physical Therapist, Master Life Coach, and creator of the Body Awareness Method, a framework for reconnecting with your four bodies: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual.