S22E10: Regaining Self-Trust In Dating

S22E10: Regaining Self-Trust In Dating

Update: 2026-04-14
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In a world full of opinions, algorithms, and endless advice, learning to trust yourself has never been harder—or more important. In this episode, we unpack how modern dating and decision-making have become clouded by external noise, from social media to AI, and why reconnecting with your intuition is key to clarity and confidence in dating. We discuss the risks of crowdsourcing every decision, how to build a “self-trust library” through small, consistent actions, and why regaining self-trust will help you massively reduce the time spent on dating to allow you to focus on the good parts!

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S22E10: Regaining Self-Trust In Dating

S22E10: Regaining Self-Trust In Dating

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick