S3: E4 – Him or Me
Digest
This chapter of Betrayal focuses on Justin's desperate attempts to avoid prison. He writes letters to his godmother Nanny, expressing his fear of being incarcerated and pleading with her to help him. He offers her a deal: if she can convince Tyler to recant his statement, Justin will complete treatment and never contact him again. When this fails, Justin resorts to a more sinister plan: he asks Nanny to find someone to kill Tyler. He provides her with details about Tyler's schedule and even draws a map of his house. However, prison authorities intercept Justin's communications and uncover his plot. They use an informant to gather evidence and ultimately arrest Justin for solicitation to commit murder. The chapter ends with Stacy's emotional reaction to Justin's plan and her fear for her children's safety.
Outlines
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Introduction
This Chapter introduces the podcast and its host, Andrea Gunning. It also mentions the previous episode and the upcoming trial of Justin Rutherford.
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Justin's Letters from Jail
This Chapter focuses on the letters Justin wrote from jail to his godmother Nanny Dee. He expresses his fear of being incarcerated and pleads with her to help him avoid prison. He also shares his complaints about the lack of amenities in jail and his desire to be with his children.
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Tyler's Trauma and Anxiety
This Chapter explores the impact of Justin's abuse on Tyler. Tyler describes his experience of living with Justin's abuse and how it has affected his mental health. He talks about his struggles with anxiety and depression, and his suicide attempt.
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Michaela's Wedding
This Chapter focuses on the wedding of Stacey's eldest daughter, Michaela. The family is happy for Michaela, but Justin's absence is deeply felt. Michaela reflects on her relationship with Justin and the challenges of celebrating her wedding while her family is grieving.
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Justin's Plan to Kill Tyler
This Chapter reveals Justin's plan to kill Tyler. He writes to Nanny, suggesting that she find someone to kill Tyler. He provides her with details about Tyler's schedule and even draws a map of his house. Prison authorities intercept Justin's communications and uncover his plot.
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Justin's Arrest
This Chapter details the investigation and arrest of Justin for solicitation to commit murder. The authorities use an informant to gather evidence and ultimately arrest Justin. The chapter ends with Stacy's emotional reaction to Justin's plan and her fear for her children's safety.
Keywords
Justin Rutherford
Justin Rutherford is the main subject of the podcast Betrayal. He is a doctor who was accused of sexually abusing his nephew, Tyler. He was later arrested for solicitation to commit murder after he attempted to hire someone to kill Tyler.
Tyler
Tyler is Justin Rutherford's nephew and the victim of his sexual abuse. He is a young man who has been deeply affected by the abuse and has struggled with anxiety and depression. He is a key witness in the case against Justin.
Nanny Dee
Nanny Dee is Justin Rutherford's godmother. She is a close friend of the family and has always been there for Justin. She is initially supportive of Justin, but she is eventually horrified by his actions and his attempt to have Tyler killed.
Betrayal
Betrayal is a podcast that tells the story of Justin Rutherford's sexual abuse of his nephew, Tyler, and his subsequent attempt to have Tyler killed. The podcast explores the themes of family, betrayal, and the impact of sexual abuse on victims and their families.
Solicitation to Commit Murder
Solicitation to commit murder is a crime in which a person asks or encourages another person to commit murder. Justin Rutherford was arrested for solicitation to commit murder after he attempted to hire someone to kill Tyler.
Forensic Interview
A forensic interview is a structured interview conducted with a child who has been the victim of abuse. The interview is designed to gather information about the abuse in a way that is sensitive to the child's needs. Tyler's forensic interview was a key piece of evidence in the case against Justin.
Inpatient Mental Health Facility
An inpatient mental health facility is a hospital or other facility that provides 24-hour care for people with mental health conditions. Tyler was admitted to an inpatient mental health facility after his suicide attempt.
Berks County Jail
Berks County Jail is the jail where Justin Rutherford was incarcerated while awaiting trial. The jail is located in Berks County, Pennsylvania.
Assistant District Attorney
An assistant district attorney is a lawyer who works for the district attorney's office. Assistant district attorneys are responsible for prosecuting criminal cases. Meg McCallum was the assistant district attorney who prosecuted Justin Rutherford's case.
Q&A
What did Justin do to try to avoid prison?
Justin tried to manipulate his godmother Nanny into killing Tyler by offering her money and even drawing a map of Tyler's house. He also threatened to take his own life if she didn't help him.
How did the authorities find out about Justin's plan?
Prison authorities intercepted Justin's communications and uncovered his plot. They used an informant to gather evidence and ultimately arrested Justin for solicitation to commit murder.
What was the impact of Justin's actions on Tyler?
Justin's abuse and his attempt to have Tyler killed had a devastating impact on Tyler. He struggled with anxiety and depression and attempted suicide. He also felt betrayed by his uncle, who he had once loved and trusted.
What was Stacy's reaction to Justin's plan?
Stacy was horrified by Justin's plan and felt betrayed by him. She was also terrified for her children's safety and slept with a loaded gun next to her bed.
What happened to Justin after he was arrested?
Justin was charged with solicitation to commit murder and was awaiting trial. The podcast will continue to follow his case and the impact of his actions on his family.
Show Notes
With Justin behind bars, the Rutherford family tries to move forward. But grief and anxiety loom large. Meanwhile, Justin plots a way out of jail with the help of an unlikely accomplice – his elderly godmother.
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Beyond evil and so arrogant
Tyler is amazing! So glad he has learned helpful coping skills for his anxiety.
Ending the letter with his own obituary sent me to the moon. What a sick drama queen
I hate that she says the good side of Justin was truly good. Good people don't rape children. the good side of him was faked so that he could gain access to children.