S3 | E185: God Can't Bless Who You're Pretending to Be
Description
Baaaby, have you ever looked at your calendar and thought, “Dang, everything is color-coded, I’m checking the boxes, it all looks good”… but deep down, it just don’t fit no more? That’s called identity drift—and it’ll have you performing productivity while your soul is craving peace.
In this episode, we’re talking about how easy it is to drift into autopilot, why even our “healing” can get performative, and the sacred reset that happens when you pause long enough to ask: Who am I becoming?
You’ll walk away with breathwork to ground you, three powerful questions to check your alignment, and the courage to stop performing and start pruning—so you can rebuild rhythms that actually match your healed, God-approved self.
✨ WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:
✅ What identity drift really is (and how it sneaks up on ambitious women)
✅ Why performance-based “excellence” keeps you exhausted
✅ The difference between true rest and just shutting down
✅ Three sacred questions that bring you back into alignment
✅ Why awareness is your first step to realignment (and your holy reset)
✅ How to create small-but-sacred shifts that free you to breathe again
⏳ TIMESTAMPS:
07:10 — What Identity Drift Looks Like in Real Life
10:20 — Performative Healing vs. Real Alignment
15:00 — Three Sacred Questions to Realign Your Life
17:20 — Breathe, Boo!: Guided Breathwork for Realignment
19:45 — Awareness: The Access Point to Alignment
21:10 — Your Sacred Charge: Make Space for Who You’re Becoming
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Free Power Pack – Boundary scripts, audio resets & mindset shifts: https://detox.hustlerehab.co/power
✨ The Hustle Rehab™ – Get on the VIP Waitlist: https://learn.miliancollective.com/thrw
CONNECT WITH DR. SEIDA:
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✨ LET’S TALK, LOVE:
What version of yourself have you outgrown—but you’re still performing?
LIKE if you’re choosing alignment over applause.
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