When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 2

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, we dive into a question from a listener named Timothy who asks,

“How can I handle the situation when I find myself getting less attracted to my wife due to certain habits or attitudes she wouldn't change? Communication is a major challenge between us. I value class and taste, while she seems more laid-back about appearances. How can I address this and understand her perspective better?”

Timothy's question revolves around how to handle the situation when he feels less attracted to his wife due to her unwillingness to change certain habits and attitudes. He also seeks guidance on addressing the issue of communication challenges and understanding his wife's perspective better.

Some Key Highlights

• The importance of valuing what God values in a marriage

  
  



• The significance of communication, vulnerability, and acceptance in fostering a loving and harmonious relationship.

  
  



• The power of laughter and finding joy in everyday moments to strengthen the connection between partners.

  
  



• Embracing each other's unique traits and differences rather than trying to change one another.

  
  

Biblical Insight 

Drawing from 1 Peter 3, we emphasise the value of inner beauty—a calm and gentle spirit—as being precious in the eyes of God. This insight encourages spouses to focus on the beauty that comes from within and align their values with what God values.

Practical Tips

• Encourage open and honest communication in the relationship, with a focus on understanding each other rather than trying to make a point.

  
  



• Find creative ways to express love languages to one another, making correction more romantic than confrontational.

  
  



• Embrace each other's differences and learn to find joy in them, recognising that attraction evolves over time.

  
  

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