Say Anything (1989) with Laurie Santos

Update: 2025-02-03

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What are the benefits of optimism? How do people transfer attachments from parents to romantic partners? What exactly counts as stalking? Paul and Eli team up with Laurie Santos (Yale professor and host of The Happiness Lab podcast) to dive into the nice-guy manifesto Say Anything, starring (sigh) John Cusack and Ione Skye.

For show notes, click here.

Hosted, produced, and edited by Paul Eastwick and Eli Finkel.

Music by Andrew Fraker and Sons

Artwork by Katie Keil

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Say Anything (1989) with Laurie Santos

Paul Eastwick and Eli Finkel

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Say Anything (1989) with Laurie Santos

Paul Eastwick and Eli Finkel

Say Anything (1989) with Laurie Santos