DiscoverBecoming: HER with Nikki SpoelstraSpecialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205
Specialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205

Specialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205

Update: 2025-09-30
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We are BACK for part 3! This week we are talking about specialty provisions which I am SO excited about. This is gonna be a fun rapid fire episode where we are covering prenups, postnups, marital settlement agreements, and ALL the specialty provisions that can go into them. Tune in!





In this episode…

  • Parenting plan
  • Involvement in ex’s life 
  • “Daddy” and “Mommy” clauses
  • Right of first refusal 
  • Radical acceptance & detachment
  • Freedom 
  • Rediscovering yourself 
  • Non-disclosure agreements
  • Infidelity clauses
  • Sunset clauses




Quotes


“When one parent vacates a space, the other one can step into it.” - Rachel Kipnis 


“We all have roles in a marriage, but when you aren’t married anymore you are going to have different roles.” - Rachel Kipnis 


“You can still be who you are and practice radical acceptance. Practicing radical acceptance and radical detachment is SO important.” - Nikki Spo



Timestamps:

0:00 - 2:15 | Intro 

2:15 - 5:40 | “Daddy clause”

5:40 - 10:10 | Right of first refusal 

10:10 - 11:30 | Roles 

11:30 - 13:00 | Radical acceptance & detachment

13:00 - 15:30 | Freedom

15:30 - 23:30 | Non-disclosure agreements 

23:30 - 34:15 | Infidelity clauses 

34:15 - 36:50 | Sunset clause 

36:50 - 38:05 | Advice 

38:05 - 40:03 | Outro 






Connect with Rachel 

@thesplitstrategist 






Connect with Nikki 

www.nikkispo.com  

@nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her 




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Specialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205

Specialty Clauses in Your Marital Document? Let’s Think This Through with Rachel Kipnis. PART 3 Ep. 205

Nikki Spo