DiscoverThe 3L’s PodcastStaying for the Kids or Staying From Fear | The 3L's Podcast Ep 21
Staying for the Kids or Staying From Fear | The 3L's Podcast Ep 21

Staying for the Kids or Staying From Fear | The 3L's Podcast Ep 21

Update: 2025-12-19
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This episode asks a hard question. Do people stay in marriages they regret. You walk through real stories and raw moments. You look at partners who stay out of guilt. You look at people who fear being alone. You look at couples who stay for the kids while losing years they will never get back.


You speak about health issues that trap people in place. You speak about men who leave when sickness hits and the women who stay through it. You speak about partners who settle because their first choice moved on. You share a story about a wife hearing her husband admit he settled for her. You break down what regret does to a home.


You also show the other side. You talk about how real love is worth fighting for. You stress the value of time apart when tempers rise. You push couples to seek the root cause instead of jumping to divorce. Stress at work. Family pressure. Burnout. Silence. Loss of intimacy. All of these shape how someone shows up.


You explain why divorce should be the last step. You look at the cost of wasting ten years in a dead relationship only to start life over in your fifties. You talk about comfort zones and how they limit growth. You challenge people to choose honesty. You ask them to stop coasting.


The conversation ends with a reminder. People withdraw for reasons that have nothing to do with you. Give grace. Look for the root. Offer space when needed. Support your partner before you assume they have checked out.

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Staying for the Kids or Staying From Fear | The 3L's Podcast Ep 21

Staying for the Kids or Staying From Fear | The 3L's Podcast Ep 21

Emmanuel/Mariam Asuquo