In this empowering episode, Transformation Coach Connie Curtis helps women unlearn old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and release the people-pleasing habits that keep them stuck. She shares powerful insights on self-love, intuition, and how to stop chasing butterflies or trying to change someone else. Through raw honesty and soulful humor, Connie reminds women that true freedom begins when you take off the mask, trust your gut, and choose yourself first.

0:00 Introduction to Connie Curtis

2:50 Women are waking up, unlearn past, unravel patterns 7:40 Can we change a man

11:00 Building self-love, self-respect equals not be a people pleaser

15:50 Be silent or walk away from something if needed

18:50 Inner work helps you take your mask off

22:50 Can you be okay being alone

28:00 Seeking butterflies on a date is a mistake

31:40 Trust your gut and intuition

38:20 Universe guides you, you can choose

Connie Curtis is a Transformation Coach, empowerment speaker, and former people-pleaser turned full-time truth-teller. She helps women unlearn codependency, release old patterns, and reclaim their voice so they can date — and live — from radical self-trust and authentic desire. Known for her blend of sass, soul, and straight-talk, Connie guides women to stop performing in relationships and finally choose themselves.

Website (Download the Freebie!): https://conniecurtisrebelcoaching.myflodesk.com/Instagram: https://instagram.com/ccrebelcoachingTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@awaken.the.spicy.rebel

More Links and Places to Connect: https://linktr.ee/ccrebelcoachingEmail: conniecurtisrebelcoaching@gmail.com

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