What happens when a rebellious pastor’s daughter refuses to follow the script? In this latest episode of Dog Tag Diaries, we introduce you to Tanya Lakins, who left a strict religious upbringing behind at just 17 to join the Marine Corps—without her father’s blessing. In this gripping conversation, Tanya shares what it meant to carve her own path, confront trauma, and ultimately find purpose as a veteran advocate. Topics include her experience as a female Marine, confronting gender stereotypes, overcoming betrayal, and the long road to healing after military sexual trauma.

Curious about what gave Tanya the strength to not give up when life got darkest? Or how she transformed pain into helping others? Tune in for inspiring insights, resilience, and the fight for better support for women veterans. This is a story about forging independence, breaking roles, and taking action. Listen now!

Tanya Lakins discovered her strength and independence in the U.S. Marine Corps, where boot camp gave her first taste of freedom and started an 11-year journey where she served with excellence, traveling the world and pushing herself to be the best. Unfortunately, her service was also marked by deep betrayal and trauma — three years in, she was raped and severely beaten by fellow Marines and pressured into silence, warned that “that kind of thing ruins careers.” The weight of that betrayal left lasting scars and also forged an unshakable resolve.

After leaving the Corps, Tanya earned a degree in Computer Science, thrived in corporate America, and pursued her passion for healing. She worked as a massage therapist for over 20 years and built her dream wellness business from the ground up. Today, Tanya works with women veterans as a Veterans Service Officer, serves as a mentor for The Battle Within, volunteers with Healing Warrior Hearts in Wisconsin, and hopes to soon mentor with the Travis Mills Foundation. A future psychologist, Tanya has transformed her trauma into purpose — advocating fiercely to ensure women veterans are seen, heard, and supported.

Resources:

healingwarriorhearts.org 

Shield of Sisters

www.travismillsfoundation.org

Tanya can be reached at tlakins72@yahoo.com for questions.  

Kim Liszka served in the United States Army/Reserves as a Combat Medic, Combat Nurse, Flight Nurse Instructor and one of the Top Female athletes in the Army. Kim worked 20+ years as an ER nurse and decided to explore the world as a travel nurse. She's an Advanced Wilderness Expedition Provider and Chief Medical Officer for numerous endurance/survival expeditions in different countries. Kim has a son, Jace and a daughter in law, Sammy and 2 grand animals, Joey & Bear. Her dog Camo is her best buddy. Camo is the sweetest yellow Labrador Retriever to walk this earth. He loves licking snow, riding the ocean waves, visiting carnivore food trucks and loves belly rubs and treats. Fun Facts: Kim's lived in the Reality TV World! Fear Factor, American Ninja Warrior-Military Edition, American Tarzan, Spartan Namibia and more to come!

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