Tackling Imposter Syndrome: A Financial Coach's Guide
Description
First things first, friends: Imposter syndrome is not a thought: “I am an imposter” or a feeling: “I feel like a fake.” It’s a circumstance. And if we want to overcome it, we need to understand it…which means clearly identifying it for what it is, which removes SOME of imposter syndrome’s power.
Think of imposter syndrome as the monster behind your closet door: you sit there, covers pulled up to your chin, staring at it the door. In your mind, the monster (aka, imposter syndrome) keeps getting bigger and bigger and scarier and scarier. Finally, you muster up the courage to walk across the room and open the closet door. And instead of a monster, your cat walks out, looking annoyed that you found their hiding place. Logically, you know that it was never a monster. It was just your cat.
Get ready to shine a light on your own imposter syndrome fears and frustrations, and learn what you can do to shut it down for good (mostly).
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Key Takeaways:
- You're new, not fake. Because being a beginner is normal and temporary.
- You know enough to help someone today even if you don't know everything yet.
- Do it anyway because confidence comes from taking action, not just learning more.
- "Can I trust you?" is what people really want to know when they ask about your credentials.
- Learn while you coach instead of waiting until you're "ready" to start helping people.
- Name the specific thoughts that make you feel like an imposter, then replace them with better ones.
- Feeling like an imposter means you're growing and pushing beyond what's comfortable.