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Tackling Perfectionism | A Conversation with Lisa Van Gemert

Tackling Perfectionism | A Conversation with Lisa Van Gemert

Update: 2024-06-19
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Today we have a truly insightful episode featuring Lisa Van Gemert, an expert in gifted education and the mind behind Gifted Guru. Join us as we explore the intricacies of perfectionism in gifted children, how it intertwines with their cognitive abilities, and its impact on their mental and emotional health.

Lisa shares invaluable strategies for parents, including a unique "one to five" task evaluation approach that can help children better understand and navigate their perfectionistic tendencies. We'll also discuss the importance of connection and mindfulness, teaching kids empathy and critical thinking, and offering grace in the homeschooling journey.

 

Key Takeaways:

  • Evaluating Perfectionism: Lisa introduced a practical "one to five" strategy for helping children—and parents—navigate the pressures of perfectionism by rating the importance of various tasks. This helps them discern between crucial and non-critical issues, thus reducing unnecessary stress.
  • Emphasizing Self-Reflection: We discussed the importance of normalizing self-reflection for children, helping them understand and accept their unique traits. This practice not only fosters self-awareness but also nurtures a healthy, growth-oriented mindset.
  • Connection Over Academics: Lisa's advice for homeschooling parents is invaluable—prioritize moments of connection and love over sheer academic achievements. Your dedication and sacrifice are more than enough for your children.

Tune in to hear more about how we can support our neurodivergent learners and help them thrive, both academically and emotionally. 

 

Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math 

 

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Tackling Perfectionism | A Conversation with Lisa Van Gemert

Tackling Perfectionism | A Conversation with Lisa Van Gemert