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BEHIND THE VELVET ROPETamra Judge's New Grief, Gretchen & Shannon's Fake Alliance & Teddi Mellencamp Health / Divorce Update
BEHIND THE VELVET ROPETamra Judge's New Grief, Gretchen & Shannon's Fake Alliance & Teddi Mellencamp Health / Divorce Update
Tamra Judge's New Grief, Gretchen & Shannon's Fake Alliance & Teddi Mellencamp Health / Divorce Update
Update: 2025-03-18
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There has been so much push back regarding Teddi Mellencamp’s recent activities about exactly what she should and should not be doing in light of her serious health diagnosis. Today, with the help of Empathic Medium Raquel, we break down the current state of Teddi’s health, discuss why people feel the need to weigh in and last, but certainly not least, analyze her supposed support system around her - Edwin, Kyle and Tamra - scrutinizing whether each of the aforementioned has her best interests, at all times, at heart. Speaking of Tamra, we discuss all that she is going through in light of her recent RHOC walk out, Andy Cohen’s involvement in her RHOC future, her current relationships with both Shannon and Gretchen, the likelihood of many reconciliations with RHOC cast past and present and her ultimate return to the show as an orange holder for Season 19. Finally, we discuss Kyle’s inevitable divorce from Mauricio, girlfriend Morgan and what we can expect as this season of RHOBH prepares to conclude and head into one explosive, epic, three part reunion.
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Hey, everyone.
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This is David.
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Welcome back behind the Velvet Rope.
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Let's just get right into it today because we are joined by V1, the only psychic, Raquel.
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Hi, David.
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How are you doing today and hi, everyone out there?
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Welcome.
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Welcome.
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Me too.
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So how, because this is your first time here like we've had psychic pandora and psychic leota and psychic robins and like, what is your process?
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Because everyone's process is different and that's what I love.
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So I'm an empathic medium, which basically means that I can like, I feel people's energy and I also get a lot of messages translated through emotion.
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So there's a lot of different areas when we're looking at the umbrella of psychic of where I look.
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Like I don't do astrology, not that I don't believe it or trust it.
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It's just not my forte.
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I try to like stay in my lane because as an empathic medium, which basically means I talk and communicate with people who have passed over.
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So basically your people talk to my people and then I talk to you and that's how I get a lot of information.
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So that's usually my process.
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I do use tarot on occasion when it's prompted by my guides, but I try to use everything at my disposal to give someone the best possible reading.
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So when they're like, well, what do you use?
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I'm like, I use everything that, you know, I'm equipped with.
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And so for all these people that are still alive, like, is that tarot or that's still like everything you use every possible.
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I use everything possible because I mean, talking to spirit guides are those are spirit guides a lot.
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I feel like they're very present, but they're not tangible.
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You know what I mean?
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So being able to really communicate empathically with what your people are trying to tell you or what it is that you're being guided to, you know, and trying to direction out like send a direction to that person.
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That's why it's that's how I work because I like to be able to really make sure that we're covering all the different territories.
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And also for talking about another person, I talk to their people, you know what I mean?
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Who talked to my people?
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So it's, it's, and then also being an empath, I can tap into them directly without.
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So if you don't want me talking to dead people, I mean, you might not want to talk to a medium, but I can definitely directly connect with the person just through their vibration.
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A lot of people need names and birthdays.
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I just kind of like, you tell me like, I'm having a problem with so and so.
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So that's how I work.
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That's good because we're going to get into some, we have a new thing we started with audience actual.
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So I have actual questions later from actual audience members.
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Before we get to some bravo stuff, I just have so like when someone comes to you and they do want to hear from someone from the other side, how often do other people come through, you know,
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like if someone comes to you and they're like, hoping like, Hey, like look, my mother passed, I really want to hear from my mother.
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And instead they hear from, you know, their next door neighbors, best friend.
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That happens quite frequently, believe it or not, because once we open up that doorway, if you ever, if anyone's ever seen the movie ghost and like what the go, we're staying behind and there's like a thousand people just kind of banging on the door.
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It's kind of like that, but I try to just focus on who are coming in for this specific person.
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And I always tell everyone who comes in from mediumship reading, it's easier to talk to me than it is to talk to them exactly who you want to speak with, but I do do my best to go through and like navigate and be like, this is who they really want to speak with.
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But half the time, if there's a louder spirit in the room, they'll be very disruptive and very interruptive, which is actually kind of funny because half the time that's how they were in, or 100% of times that's how they were in life.
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So then the person are reading for us like, Oh, that's my aunt, she never shuts up.
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And I'm like, fantastic because they were not being quiet.
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So we're going to let her talk and then we're going to get back to the person you want to speak to who's actually relatively quiet in the room to see what they would like to say.
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So really, they just kind of pop up like daisies, you know, you really never know who you're going to speak with.
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But that happens.
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I would say probably out 99% of the time.
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So never be surprised if the next door was neighbors dog who died last Tuesday, it kind of sits in the corner of the room and I'll be like, who's this dog is this your dog?
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No, but my neighbors, well, can you let them know that they're dog school?
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And then we move on like, I don't sit with the person they don't want to talk to you.
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I just let you know, hey, this person is here.
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They say hi.
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And then we move on to the more important pressing person.
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And then just so because look, everyone wants to hear from their loved ones, right?
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Like, that's why it most well, I mean, a lot of people go to read it for readings for different things.
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They want career advice.
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And, but like, how many times does someone come and just the person just doesn't come through?
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They want their mother to come through and the mother just, you know, just doesn't come through.
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It's a very rare thing that happens, but it is going to happen, you know, or they're just not ready to speak.
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If you're calling me because a person died yesterday, you know, it's going to be harder for them to really kind of communicate because even though there's no time on the other side, at least in our philosophy of it, they're still trying to cope with the fact that they just lost their life.
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They're also mourning.
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They're also adjusting.
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So there's an adjustment period.
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So normally, I'll talk to somebody that guided that person over.
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So if your mother died in there and their grandmother was there, I'll talk to the grandmother and say, this is what she's passing on the message because she's not ready to speak yet.
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So that does happen.
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Or they're just not in the ether.
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And I've also had readings where the person was there, but they would not talk at all.
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And I'm like, they're sitting here.
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This is who they are.
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Like, came in, very, put their hat down, very social, but not talkative.
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And then finally, the spirit says, can I go now?
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And I start cracking up.
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And I tell the person.
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I'm like, I'm sorry, but your dad was just like, can I go now?
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And they're like, that's my dad.
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He would never talk.
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And so, but I was so frustrated because I couldn't get anything from this person until they're finally like, can I go?
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I'm like, I guess, so that does happen where they just will not speak.
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And we have to kind of respect it.
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I can't force them to perform.
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This isn't, you know what I mean?
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It's our show we love performing, but not everybody is as talkative as we are.
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Not everyone is that so.
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Well, now, okay, before we begin, Robyn, now I have a question.
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This could be asked.
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Yes.
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I mean, are our loved ones in, like, say someone lost, you know, like their mother and their father or whoever, two brothers, like, are our loved ones together in,
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like, after they pass?
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Like, does the family, like, is a family together?
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Or, like, can say you lost your mother and father or your mother and father together?
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They actually are.
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I did lose both my parents and I lost a sister, so I can actually, I'm well versed in this.
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In my office, I actually have their earns, but it really depends on their relationship that they were in.
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If they despise each other, I'll have them on opposite ends of my office, my parents, but like, just in general, I've had that happen where I'm like, okay, one of you talks at a time, you know,
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and they'll still be bickering, like, it's hilarious.
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So yeah, I feel like they do come together, you know, and I am a big believer in reincarnation.
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I don't know.
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I'm not pushing any, you know, darkens on anybody.
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But sometimes people do come back and we have their essence, but we don't have their spirit because they're not necessarily there anymore, you know.
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But I am a big believer that the families do stay together and they do, you know, they do come together in different ways.
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Maybe the parents will bicker all the time, may not come to the child at the same time, but I do believe yes, they do are there are most likely in the same plane, unless there's,
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I mean, that's not always the case.
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It really is a spirit by spirit process, you know, where they can miss each other too as well.
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You know, it just really depends where they are and their growth too as well, you know.
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But arguments do continue after that.
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I will say that.
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Grudges.
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Man, people hold onto those.
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Okay.
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So those don't go away.
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Well, getting into some bravo stuff.
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I want to start with a woman name.
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Her name is in I mean, we when I were talking before like you do not watch bravo and listen, this is what I learned actually from Mary Ann at psychic source.
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She said there are a third of the people that completely believe in psychics.
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There's a third that completely don't and then there's the middle third.
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And that is that's the third that is so interesting because those are the ones that have been listening to this show that are starting to get a lot of readings through psychic source through this and they're like,
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wow, just was so spot on.
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So Mary Ann was like, okay, like there's a third of people.
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We don't need, you know, everyone's listening.
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But if you don't believe and you never will, great.
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And then there's a third that do.
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It's like the middle third.
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Not only did I use to have a podcast, Georgia, it's coming back.
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It's coming out, yeah.
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I don't know why, but I just felt predictions comes up.
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Obviously, I'm a psychic.
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So they're going to be like, and that's so general.
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No, literally.
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Sometimes we're just going to talk about the person.
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She love, okay, just in her, god, her nausea.
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I'm empathic, also physical medium.
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So actually, I'll feel the pain of everything.
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I do feel like she's got something going on here and here.
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I'm talking, looking at the top of my head.
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What am I talking about showing things, but here and here and here feels like scar tissue.
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Like she wants to keep things private.
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Like she has this different persona for like outside, she's, you know, she wants to come off as confident.
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I mean, I feel like she's absolutely stunning.
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I feel like she's overcome a lot, but she definitely had to like try to like get rid of like stigmas that were like attached to her, you know?
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So does that make sense?
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00:18:52
Well, she had, she has melanoma that has spread to her brain.
00:19:00
So when you say brain, she has spread and she just had an operation that they found five tumors on her brain, two of which are removed, the others of which can't be removed.
00:19:13
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00:19:34
She's, I mean, she's trying, but like, I mean, she's just really, she's really worried.
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I just feel so much fear with her, you know, I don't, I feel like she, I feel like she'd just be classified as someone who's afraid of like,
00:19:51
you know, of dying, which is completely understandable.
00:19:54
That's a fear that 95% of us face, but when you face with that type of mortality, can that make sense?
00:20:00
Because I was feeling like this like warmth down the back of my neck and that can just show like things spreading, you know what I mean?
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Like with the cancer.
00:20:06
So unfortunately, I'm familiar with cancer too because my father passed away and just watching it is just an awful disease.
00:20:14
So.
00:20:15
Right.
00:20:15
Like in my experience with cancer and I'm not a doctor is like you, of course, I think you remain a hopeful until you're not until the very end because what else are you actually supposed to do because you're still living like she just went to write a horror.
00:20:32
She's very into horseback writing and she got a lot of public criticism from that.
00:20:36
I'm like, I think at this point, she should be doing whatever she wants on a daily basis.
00:20:40
That's so messed up.
00:20:41
I feel like people, I'm like, I'm like, okay, so I'm like such a hype.
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I'm such a hype girl like I will hype up.
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I'm not here to anybody down like I am such like a high person.
00:20:50
I feel like if she wants to write a horse, nobody has any business in telling her what she should or should not be doing because right now is the time where she's like, I'm going to live.
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I'm going to go to Spain.
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I'm going to go do this.
00:21:02
I'm going to, you know what I mean?
00:21:03
And I feel like it's very narcissistic of people to be like, well, she should be doing what I would be doing right now, which is, you know, no, let her write the horse, let her do what she loves, let her eat the foods that she loves.
00:21:13
I feel like that's the one big rigour that I have to my own father when he died is he wanted teriyaki steak and they're like, no, he can't have it.
00:21:19
Why would you, you know, like not let a dying man have teriyaki steak and I should have just eaten to the hospital and I should have just done it, you know, but at the same time, you're also being like,
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I know she's wanting to try to be as positive as possible.
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And I really would love for her to make a turnaround.
00:21:38
But at this moment, and pathically, she's struggling with her mortality, you know?
00:21:45
So ride the horse, do it, teriy, do it, go horse, go on the boat, go on the yacht, do what you're going to do.
00:21:52
Like find it right.
00:21:55
I would agree with that.
00:21:57
Now it's funny.
00:21:58
You mentioned the husband because I have some questions about the husband.
00:22:00
So she is Mary, now she was, his name is Edwin, she was getting a divorce.
00:22:09
Like there was, they were in the process of getting a divorce.
00:22:12
Now I am a New Yorker, so I have my own, I have, I have like a very positive view of the world.
00:22:18
I am a very happy person, but I'm just a very realistic person.
00:22:22
So I have my own thoughts that people just, like I'm like, I wouldn't say I'm jaded, but I'm just, I don't know, people just do things for their own self reasons, most people.
00:22:32
So this divorce is now, he's back in the picture.
00:22:36
He was never really out of the picture.
00:22:38
This all kind of happened at once, but they were getting a divorce now.
00:22:41
The divorce is kind of off.
00:22:42
He is by her side.
00:22:44
They have children.
00:22:45
So he's the father of the children.
00:22:47
Is he a good support system?
00:22:49
Because I have my own theories.
00:22:51
Like is, and maybe he is, like is this, is it, like you said, that she's struggling with her own mortality?
00:22:57
So is it like, let me just be there for this person?
00:23:01
For whatever the remainder is, which could be a, you know, who knows?
00:23:05
Or is there some ulterior motive that there's no divorce at the moment?
00:23:10
I feel like there's death.
00:23:11
Okay.
00:23:12
So it's kind of a double of sort.
00:23:13
Okay.
00:23:14
Because I do feel like, I feel like he's trying, okay, so I feel like he's trying to protect his image by not leaving her high and dry while she is doing this.
00:23:25
And also, she's getting a lot of publicity right now because of all of this.
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I feel like he enjoys flashing lights.
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I feel like he enjoys the spotlight, not getting nauseated again because I feel like that's just not a reason to do it.
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But then there's this other side of him that doesn't want, I feel like it's more for the kids than it is for her.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, I feel like he, and I don't know if this is going to be weird, but I feel like he like married up or tried to be like, here's where I want to go to a society type deal.
00:27:01
So I feel a little bit of like climber, you know, but I have to say not everything, I feel like he's like, I'm making these sacrifices and I'm doing this.
00:27:12
I feel like he's just kind of using that as kind of like almost like a marketing scheme to make himself.
00:27:17
Here's my pedestal, and I'm sitting on it.
00:27:20
Not like I said, I'm such a high person, but like to be caddy on this, I feel like there is ulterior motives here in the whole thing of it.
00:27:29
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00:27:34
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00:27:37
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00:27:40
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00:27:55
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00:28:07
So I would have to say the same thing right now, but at the same time, I am grateful that she has somebody that she trusts, and I put that in air quotes because there's a lot of conflict within that too as well.
00:28:23
You know, they have such a love-hate relationship.
00:28:26
They love each other or they hate each other.
00:28:27
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00:28:29
It's not peaceful.
00:28:30
So.
00:28:31
Well, she is like, what do you say social climber?
00:28:34
I don't know what his situation was, but she is like, I don't know if you know John Melanchamp, like Jack and David Singer.
00:28:40
Yeah.
00:28:41
So she's, that's her father, so yeah, so yeah, so he, she's already kind of in the, the musician's children,
00:28:52
yeah, yeah, I mean, it's not like being Beyonce's daughter and blue, you know, Blue Ivy, but it's still something, right?
00:29:01
Like there is still, now see, because my mind goes to, I'm just such a, I'm such a business person.
00:29:08
My mind goes to financial stuff of like, if you are married to someone and they pass away for whatever reason, you are the next of, I mean, it goes to you,
00:29:18
if you are married, if you are divorced from someone and you are not married and they pass away, you don't get money.
00:29:25
If they have money and you don't, and I'm not saying that's a situation, he has a business, my mind just goes to, if your spouse dies, you are the person who inherits it all, short of a will.
00:29:35
I mean, that's, it's, it's not spelled out.
00:29:36
It goes to you.
00:29:37
That's where my sick mind goes.
00:29:39
I, well, I don't feel like that's a sick mind.
00:29:40
I feel like that's a very like word, you know, like I can be very like, set tire type deal or like, you know, when it comes to love, you know what I mean, I'm kind of a no mercy reader.
00:29:51
Like I'll be like, this is, this is what it is, you know, but I do feel like that makes a lot of sense to me, but I feel like it's also like image, you know, interesting, I didn't think of that.
00:30:00
I mean, image, like how is he going to look, leaving her while she's fighting for her life?
00:30:09
Her kids are watching her fight for her life.
00:30:12
And he's going to be like, peace out, like that's not that's just that destroys reputations.
00:30:19
You know what I mean?
00:30:20
And that's where it comes into where he's thinking about his own personal climb and also all the attention right now too, as well, you know, but I feel like that's very true in what you're saying about a financial aspect.
00:30:30
Absolutely.
00:30:31
I feel like that's fully part of it.
00:30:32
Like if you and I were getting a divorce, and first of all, I would have a will.
00:30:35
But if you and I were getting a divorce and all of a sudden you called it off and I really felt like I would just feel like you don't have to call this off.
00:30:42
Like, I mean, or please be there for me, but I would make sure my will was like, I mean, if you weren't, you know, I just think that's, I don't know, but that's good to know that part of it's for the children.
00:30:53
Yeah.
00:30:54
I feel like that's just it because I feel like it's like, you know what I mean?
00:30:57
What is the world going to see?
00:30:58
But like what are the children going to see?
00:31:00
And I feel like, so that to me, I'm like, cool respect.
00:31:02
Like, that's awesome.
00:31:03
But then I'm all because that's like the 25% mom, but 75% of it feels more like, what can I claim?
00:31:11
And it makes me a little nauseated to say that I'm going to say, you know, how about, so she has two friends.
00:31:19
Let's take one in particular because I want to ask you about this person next.
00:31:22
So this woman's name is Tamra George.
00:31:24
Now she is one of Teddy's friends is she like, and she was a, her name originally was Tamra so a lot.
00:31:32
She's her name is Tamra George.
00:31:33
Is she like a good friend to Teddy?
00:31:36
Like does she have a good support system in this person Tamra?
00:31:40
And then she gets into some of what Tamra is going to say.
00:31:43
So you know, I feel like, oh my gosh, okay.
00:31:45
So Tamra just as a person has definitely like, I feel supportive.
00:31:51
So I definitely feel like there's a really support relationship.
00:31:54
She really, I mean, honestly, they value each other like, let's talk about like female friendships here for a minute without it being caddy or drive down like they are, they kind of go through the thick of it together.
00:32:06
You know, like they are besties, like pinkie sort of besties.
00:32:10
I feel like Tamra has had to do her own like, I feel like she can get a little bit envious of Teddy.
00:32:16
When Teddy gets more like attention, but I also feel like at the end of the day, she's very, she's trying not to be problematic.
00:32:24
Like, I feel like they're not problematic towards each other.
00:32:26
I feel like they try to not.
00:32:28
And so they try to build on each other, but I feel like they're like, I can't believe you got that bitch.
00:32:32
You know what I mean?
00:32:33
Like type of deal.
00:32:34
They're also like very like not narrow-minded towards each other.
00:32:38
You know what I mean?
00:32:39
I feel like they just, they're, it's not hit and miss.
00:32:43
I feel like Tamra is a massive overthinker, massive overthinker, like constantly, constantly overthinking judgment too, as well, like really afraid of judgment on things,
00:32:54
you know?
00:32:54
And I also feel like Tamra is having a really hard time letting go of certain relationships that don't fit her, okay?
00:33:00
I also feel like she gets really bad like migraine or headache type deals that come up in the back just because I just felt that like kind of dark in the back.
00:33:08
Like she gets her stress is like super like intense back here right now, especially because I feel like she's worried that a person that she really loves is like going to leave her and what is she going to do?
00:33:18
Like they are like, yeah, they are authentic, but yeah, sorry, just kind of went into her, but also their relationship, but who's going to be like, I Tamra, I feel like she is genuinely like bonded to Teddy,
00:33:31
but it's like so afraid of everything because they balance each other and it's like weird kind of, they're yenteying type people, you know, but they like balance each other like intensely.
00:33:43
I could see all that.
00:33:44
I mean that all makes sense, I mean Tamra as a person in general is kind of jealous when people get something that she doesn't have.
00:33:53
I think they are probably good friends, so that's good to hear.
00:33:56
I mean, they have a business together, it's a podcast called Two Ties.
00:34:00
So like, you know, they're in business together and the success of their podcast is really both of them.
00:34:07
And they're really, from what I could see, there's not really, right, like they're in it together, so that's a good thing for both of them.
00:34:15
That's good to know that she is a good friend to her, I, that doesn't shock me.
00:34:19
She, Tamra is on a show, it's called The Real Housewives of Orange County, it's filming like right now, and she, so there's drama, right, there's drama in filming these housewives shows,
00:34:31
and she has people, the one woman that's been on the show forever named Shan and another woman named Gretchen who hasn't been on the show forever, they brought her back.
00:34:39
Like, look, there's a lot of people that don't like Tamra, so they're all coming for her, and Tamra like walked out and she's like, I quit because when you have real life stuff going on, you know, Teddy was never on this show.
00:34:50
She was on another show called The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, different, you know, one's all, they're all in, you're in LA, so they're all in my house, so it's like they're all in my area.
00:35:01
So like, one of them is the orange, so like, but basically, so Tamra's having drama filming the Orange County, it's filming now, and she's just like, I'm out, like, I'm, I'm done with this,
00:35:11
like when you have real problems going on, meaning Teddy, like, you know, when you have real life stuff that you're dealing with, my really good friend is truly, as you say, fighting for her life, which I don't,
00:35:21
I think anyone that's referring to Teddy's situation as anything, but that I think is in denial, that's just my opinion.
00:35:28
But so, you know, now Tamra's quit, quit, and I'm saying air quotes now because like, is that real?
00:35:37
Is Tamra gone?
00:35:38
Or I mean, you know, quit, she hasn't quit for 10 years, she's quit for a day.
00:35:42
This is a story, TBD, like maybe she really is done, like, what did you get any sense of Tamra?
00:35:48
Like, is this authentic?
00:35:50
Did she get, you know, these two girls gretchen and like, is she off?
00:35:53
Where is she coming back, I guess, is what my sense.
00:35:56
Okay, so like these two girls gretchen and Shannon, all I got was a spike of negativity that came, and I feel like they're gunning towards her, like,
00:36:06
gunning towards her, like, fully.
00:36:10
Once again, for the sake of the show, because obviously people aren't going to watch it, there's no drama, right?
00:36:13
So, but I almost feel like instructed, like, they need to, like, do this, but I also feel like there's a lot of other judgment that's going on from these other two women.
00:36:23
And let's just say we're putting, like, olive oil and vinegar, they're just not mixing.
00:36:27
I don't feel like these two would mix in a mixer, I feel like they would be on opposite sides of the club.
00:36:32
They would never, they would someone would stuff in someone's shoe.
00:36:34
Gretchen and Shannon.
00:36:35
Yeah, they're just not, you know what I mean?
00:36:37
They're just, they're just different people.
00:36:39
They just don't mix at all.
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So you have, Tamara, who's going through massive amounts of crisis.
00:41:23
She literally was just like, "You're right, I feel like she was like, I'm over it.
00:41:26
I'm done.
00:41:27
I'm not doing this anymore."
00:41:28
She pulls away, but then she gets hooked back into it because I feel like she needs an outlet for her own personal drama,
00:41:39
you know what I mean?
00:41:42
So even though she pulled out of this for now, I do feel like she'll come back into it.
00:41:45
But I feel like it's almost like therapy, like it's literally going boxing.
00:41:49
You know what I mean?
00:41:50
Boxing is fantastic.
00:41:51
I love boxing.
00:41:52
It's so great.
00:41:53
You can just punch out a bag.
00:41:54
But this is like, obviously, let's not hurt real people.
00:41:56
But it's that type of therapeutic type of energy.
00:42:00
But I will tell you that they really hit her super hard and she needed a minute and she needed to go to the locker room and she's getting pep talked by her people to get back out into the ring.
00:42:10
Like, that's what I'm picking up.
00:42:11
Like, she is, no, I'm done.
00:42:14
Pack of bags.
00:42:15
Go to the trailer.
00:42:16
Like, we're it.
00:42:17
And then she'll resurface, but not even that far away, like literally like spring.
00:42:24
So like maybe like next month, I think she needs a minute, you know, but she's in the locker room.
00:42:30
She's not done.
00:42:31
She didn't exit stage, like, we're, she's still doing this.
00:42:36
That makes sense yet.
00:42:37
Andy Cohen, like the big boss and I get the impression too that like they're not, they're trying to convince her to stay.
00:42:43
She's a huge part of the show.
00:42:44
She's been there for like decades and yeah, like I'm not sure like she left.
00:42:50
She was filming a cast trip.
00:42:51
She was able to leave that.
00:42:52
They said, go home.
00:42:53
But I agree with you.
00:42:55
I'm not sure it's over just yet either now they're giving her a pep talk.
00:43:00
They're letting her cry it out.
00:43:01
I feel like her taking a break from now.
00:43:03
This was like for her to even go there during all of this anyway was incredibly brave for her to do it.
00:43:10
Because you're looking at a person who is just a pack of matches near the fire.
00:43:16
You know what I mean?
00:43:17
She was going to explode and the intensity of everything.
00:43:21
So it will make for a fantastic television and people will love it because you're going to get the drama that you create and that's amazing.
00:43:28
But I will tell you that this is like we're talking about people's like real lives.
00:43:31
You know what I mean?
00:43:32
And just, you know, she's, she's going to come back because I feel like she loves her, she loves her fans.
00:43:40
She really is dedicated to her fans, you know, but also she also understands that this is therapeutic.
00:43:46
Let's take this and turn it into something more positive and sound for her.
00:43:50
So it is going to be her going back into the ring.
00:43:52
So, but yeah, it's not over yet, you know, come April.
00:43:57
That's good to know.
00:43:59
And one more person who's going through a lot of stuff, her name is Kyle Richards.
00:44:03
She is one of Teddy's friends too.
00:44:06
Do you get a sense of good, like is she a good friend?
00:44:10
To Teddy and she's going through a lot herself, Kyle Richards.
00:44:14
She is.
00:44:15
Okay.
00:44:16
So she car mentalizes things like she puts things in houses like this is like here and this is like here, she's hyper organized because it's a way for her to study her own personal anxieties, but she is like hyper organized like she does not like clutter is what I'm picking up with her.
00:44:31
And I feel like the same thing she does when she handles relationships.
00:44:33
She is bestie buddies with Teddy.
00:44:37
They are going through a lot of similar situations and I will tell you that when you need somebody that you can just go into a room with and just say,
00:44:50
if it all like we're done, we're done, we're going to do this and they just hype each other up and they're just like, no, this is it.
00:44:58
And then she encloses around Teddy like a little cocoon and she shields her, you know, and she says, I'm going to put my stuff into this column and I'm going to focus on you.
00:45:09
And then when it's her turn, she opens herself up to Teddy and then we just focus on what's going on with Kyle like, you know what I mean?
00:45:17
I feel like it's a very tit for tat relationship and where tit for tat doesn't always mean like negative.
00:45:23
It means that I'm giving you what you give to me and they are very supportive of each other.
00:45:29
I mean, if we're like looking at a bubble cocoon, this is what Kyle does for Teddy.
00:45:35
And she is just anytime someone that says something bad or negative about Teddy, the knives come out, the knives come out.
00:45:47
She's a cocoon telling me she's like, you know, this like force field around Teddy.
00:45:52
And she is obviously very devastated with everything that she's going through, but she is her hype girl.
00:45:58
She is trying not to let it affect her.
00:46:00
She's like, here's my card mentalization of my own grief, but I'm not going to show Teddy right now because I want Teddy to know that she's supported.
00:46:06
I want to make sure she knows that I believe that she's going to be healthy.
00:46:09
I believe she's going to be like, this is like, Kyle is like someone after my own heart because I'm like that hype girl.
00:46:14
I want to like give out those good vibes and that's what she does to Teddy.
00:46:19
Maybe that's not for everybody, but if we're just looking at their relationship, this is the girl that Teddy can call and be like, I'm sick and tired of that person.
00:46:27
I'm sick and tired of that person.
00:46:28
I cannot believe that person.
00:46:30
And she's like, I know right, like she is ultimate support, but it's equal measure.
00:46:37
That tracks.
00:46:38
And yes, when people have said things about Teddy, there was lots of times when she got criticisms, Kyle is the first to speak up.
00:46:45
There's this woman to read.
00:46:46
And she was punishing her rumor, has it for saying something bad about Teddy.
00:46:50
So Kyle is protective of Teddy.
00:46:52
That makes sense.
00:46:53
And as far as compartmentalizing, Kyle was married to a man for 27 years.
00:46:59
Now she's basically dating this woman named Morgan.
00:47:02
It's not on the show.
00:47:03
She's also on Beverly Hills.
00:47:05
So she compartmentalizes like this is, you know, she hasn't spoken on this relationship, but I mean, it's pretty obvious what's going on.
00:47:12
So Kyle is a compartmentalized.
00:47:14
Yeah.
00:47:15
It's her new normal.
00:47:16
I feel like she's like, and now I close the door on this and I do this.
00:47:19
But it's how she manages her life anyway.
00:47:22
Like her life is like hyper scheduled.
00:47:24
She says she's going to be there at 1030.
00:47:26
She expects you to be there at 1025.
00:47:28
Like it's just she is hyper scheduled.
00:47:32
Do not cross this woman.
00:47:34
I think you're describing me.
00:47:36
I don't know if you're describing Kyle, I mean, I mean, it's, no, I mean, this, this, no, this could be, I think this is Kyle too, but maybe you're getting some of my energy because I also hyper hyper,
00:47:48
I compare, I'm a Gemini, I, even though you're not, you don't really do this by astrology, I compartmentalize, I could be like, I could have the biggest tragedy in my life happen at nine and at 915,
00:48:02
I have to be on air with you and I can go on air and just be like, I will deal with this tragedy at 10 when we're off.
00:48:10
Now we're here and I can, I'm that type, like we don't need to cancel this.
00:48:14
It's scheduled.
00:48:15
Let's go.
00:48:16
I want to say, but yes, and if we're meeting at 1030, I expect you there by 1031 or I don't know where you are and what's going on and I will never be the one who's late.
00:48:25
So it's, it's me, I really compartmentalize my entire life.
00:48:30
So I get it.
00:48:31
I respect the, the, the promptness, like I'm a Libra, so Libra and Gemini, I do know, I do know some things about astrology.
00:48:38
I'm not like completely dead to the world on it.
00:48:39
It's just not my forte, but I know that Libra's and Gemini's are very alike in that way because we do have the, like the scales when it comes to papers, like we're balanced.
00:48:48
I get anxious if I'm going to be five minutes early, like I feel like, like there's that two minute thing where I can be stuck at the light and I'm two seconds away from the place.
00:48:58
I, despite making people late, like I, I like, I was like, I literally logged into zoom, like at like 20 minutes prior to our meeting and was like, well, I didn't like setting things up,
00:49:09
like I was like, preparing myself because I don't like to show up late and I don't like to show up unprepared.
00:49:14
And I am the worst person with technology.
00:49:15
I don't know if you know this.
00:49:16
This is a fun fact about mediums and psychics in general.
00:49:19
We garner a lot of energy.
00:49:21
Do you know how many technical malfunctions I suffer daily because you're not an energy that comes in because spirit likes to use energy to conduct because it's easy.
00:49:32
So they'll flicker things or turn things off.
00:49:33
I do Facebook lives for a psychic source, like once a month every, so often, you know, and they change their life all the time, but there's always a technical glitch.
00:49:45
Like I can't pin a comment or I can't do this because everything is glitching because of the reading.
00:49:50
So just FYI tidbit for those who are wondering if you're like, am I psychic abilities and I can't use technology?
00:49:56
You probably are psychic.
00:49:57
Interesting.
00:49:58
Interesting.
00:49:59
Yeah.
00:50:00
And if I'm going to be like, if I'm going to be four minutes late, I will start texting you like five minutes and people are like, you're going to be three minutes late.
00:50:11
You don't have to.
00:50:12
Like that's fine.
00:50:13
And I'm like, it's fine for you.
00:50:14
Thank you.
00:50:15
But it's not fine for me.
00:50:16
See, I was in my acupuncturist like elevator the other day and I was like, I went to the wrong elevator and I was going to be on time, but I wanted to let her know I was in the building.
00:50:25
I'm like, just so you know, I'm in the elevator.
00:50:26
She's like, you're the only person who texts me when you're not late.
00:50:29
I don't understand.
00:50:30
I'm like, well, I just, I feel like what if the elevator doesn't show up and I'm going to be two minutes late?
00:50:34
I, your time is valuable.
00:50:35
Like, I'm never late.
00:50:38
As we wrap up.
00:50:39
So then do you know, I mean, trust me, I could talk to you all day, do you like, when you come to like, like if you go to like a city like New York, even a like, like, are you like, I would imagine like, if you,
00:50:49
I don't know if you have often, if you've been to New York, but like you know, you're walking around the streets of New York, there's a lot going on like, do you get a lot when you're in a city that's busier as opposed to, I mean, you're in LA and that's also a busy city as opposed to like,
00:51:01
you know, if you lived in, I don't know, Kansas or somewhere, no offense to Kansas where there's not a lot of people, like does it geographically?
00:51:08
It's, it is important.
00:51:10
That's, those are very like, uh, I moved out of LA because there was too many people and doing the energy that worked that I do, I need to be in like a server via like a way.
00:51:22
Yeah.
00:51:23
Majority people because energetically, it's extraordinarily draining.
00:51:26
Like, I do have a process of like shutting down, but since I do this for a living, I'm on 24/7, you know, I feel people's energy.
00:51:34
Um, but when I do travel, when I finally do go to New York, I went to New York, but not New York City.
00:51:39
I went to Lilleydale, New York, which is the town that talks to the dad.
00:51:41
It's outside of Buffalo.
00:51:42
So I did go to New York, but like, so like, there was like, certain areas, but every time I go to a city, I actually seek out their ghost tour, like I go on their ghost tour.
00:51:50
I go to the haunted locations.
00:51:52
I'm going to Portland.
00:51:53
I cannot wait to go to the Shanghai tunnels.
00:51:55
I went to Denver, but I wanted to go to the Stanley.
00:51:58
Like I, haunted places are my forte.
00:52:00
So I'll seek it out, but I will tell you if you're talking about energies, absolutely.
00:52:04
But at the same time, just because a place is like rural, does not mean there's lingering crap that went on 200 years ago.
00:52:12
That is just re-roin with energy where I'll just be like, oh my god, get me back to the busy city where I can feel living people's energy as opposed to these dead people that went through like hell.
00:52:23
So it really just depends on geographic location, historical events, things like that.
00:52:29
But actively, since I'm a ghost hunter, I will go to the most actively haunted places.
00:52:33
So maybe I like to go visit the dead people a little bit more than I like the living, but you know, so that makes sense, but I do live in a rural part because I can't handle the amount of energy that people put off just going into the city.
00:52:48
Like I can't wait to come out of the city, you know, and I'm like, I have fun and I'm like, I love LA, I love Hollywood, it's my hometown.
00:52:57
But then I'm like, and I miss it.
00:52:59
And then I come home and I'm like homesick for my hood, but then I'm also like, it's quiet.
00:53:07
Well, I do not do what you do, but I can tell you, when I get on a plane and leave that way where I do have a home in Hollywood, I also feel like, get me the fuck out of here.
00:53:18
So 110% say that.
00:53:20
I love it, but I can't wait to fly away out of it.
00:53:23
I leave LA completely and utterly exhausted every time I am there.
00:53:29
Well, I will tell you, if you're in Hollywood too, you're talking about like an extraordinarily like haunted location too, as well.
00:53:34
Imagine the amount of disappointment and success that's come out of those areas.
00:53:37
So if you're even, I can already tell that you're, you definitely have empathic abilities.
00:53:41
I already know that you have some clairvoyance in you.
00:53:43
I can already tell that you are one of our kind, our buddies, so I can definitely feel it.
00:53:48
You're really good at people.
00:53:49
You're really good at judgment of people.
00:53:51
I know when you see someone walk in the door, you're like, oh hell no, like, bye, like, you know, you're like a very good judgment of person.
00:53:57
So like, you being in a place like Hollywood where this place has absorbed so much sorrow in unsatisfactory and broken dreams.
00:54:06
It really is a city where one in a building, you know, one in a billion makes it, you know.
00:54:12
So being in those areas, I have so much history to it and also just like how they tear down buildings and build buildings and stuff like that does not mean that remnants of that area is still not there.
00:54:22
So being in a place like Hollywood with a sensitive like you, you're going to leave and being like, oh, thank goodness.
00:54:29
So if you can choose a more haunted location to live in Los Angeles, you found it.
00:54:33
I guess Hollywood and that's because I live in New York style and I live like in a building because I, you know, I'd like to live.
00:54:38
I don't want to house.
00:54:39
So Hollywood is really where there are nice tall buildings and you can like, but I interesting.
00:54:44
Yeah, I mean, I think, honestly, I think that I say that all the time, like trust me, I have a lot of faults in this world and there's a lot of things I'm not good at.
00:54:53
One thing I'm great at is yes, I can size something like it's not what you're saying.
00:54:57
It's like, I can tell you what's really what you're really saying.
00:55:00
That's how I'm able to analyze these shows that we watch because I'm like, this is what happened on the show, but let me explain to you what this person is like in real life.
00:55:08
And this is really what's happening.
00:55:09
That's is my skill.
00:55:10
Like I'm good at that.
00:55:11
Mind you, I suck at so many things in this world.
00:55:15
I do not have the abilities you have, but I have the, I can size someone up in like two seconds and 95% of the time be right on the money that yes.
00:55:25
So if you're picking that off, it is true.
00:55:27
Again, I have many shortcomings.
00:55:30
I do not pretend.
00:55:31
I tell up my stairs like two weeks ago in in spring, Michael, like I can't navigate stairs.
00:55:36
So if you are wondering about shortcomings, you know, technology, I'm right there with you.
00:55:42
I've gotten better at it over the years, but I mean, then if there's a technology problem to have, I am running to the Apple store and being like, I have no idea what's going on.
00:55:53
And usually it's a really simple fix.
00:55:54
I know.
00:55:55
I'm like, I'm like, husband of mine, like here's the, she's like, of like, yeah, I got my father was an engineer.
00:56:02
I'm like, I have a brother that works at NASA.
00:56:04
Like, are you kidding me right now?
00:56:05
Like, I got dead people, like, and I'm so proud of it.
00:56:07
You have.
00:56:08
And that is, I wish, I wish I had that skill.
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I'm excited.
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I'm so glad.
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I know I can't wait to have you back.
00:56:58
We have so many other people be caught to today, but that's what I love about these shows because I mean, the Teddy stuff, especially was really important for me to kind of get your read on.
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So I appreciate this.
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I could have talked to you for hours and hours.
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We will do this again very soon.
00:57:15
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00:57:17
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It's been a real pleasure.
00:57:19
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