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Tempted to Say It’s All in Your Head? Try THIS Instead

Tempted to Say It’s All in Your Head? Try THIS Instead

Update: 2024-07-24
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When people are struggling with their mental health, they tend to bring it up with their primary care doctor first.


And while I love that my patients feel comfortable bringing these issues to me, I don’t always feel like I have the time or expertise to facilitate a really good conversation and address their concerns effectively.


So, more often than not, I end up writing a prescription.


What can PCPs do to engage in better conversations with patients about their symptoms of anxiety and depression? How can we work with psychiatrists to support patients around their mental health?


Shelby Riley is the Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist behind Shelby Riley, LMFT & Associates, a practice based in Chester Springs, Pennsylvania, that offers therapy to individuals, couples, teens, kids and families.


On this episode of Tell Me More, Shelby explains what most primary care doctors do well in mental health conversations with patients and how we can improve simply by making sure people know we care.


Shelby discusses the challenge therapists face in giving patients very difficult feedback and describes the advantage she has over PCPs in being able to model repair when she handles a conversation poorly. 


Listen in for Shelby’s insight on being honest with patients when a mental health concern is out of our scope of practice and learn how patients can prepare for conversations with their PCP around mental wellbeing.



Key Takeaways 

How PCPs and psychiatrists can work as a team to support patients around their mental health


How most PCPs give patients good options for dealing with mental health concerns


Why primary care doctors should encourage therapy vs. relying on medication alone to address anxiety and depression


Shelby’s advice on working with teens and young adults experiencing mental health issues


How it’s received by patients when a PCP says, ‘There’s nothing wrong with you; it’s all in your head’ (and how to reframe the message effectively)


How PCPs might approach conversations about weight from a place of love, not judgement


The challenge therapists face in giving patients very difficult feedback


Shelby’s experience of feeling physically unsafe with a client and the steps she takes to keep her team safe


What Shelby does when a patient needs a higher level of care than her outpatient therapy practice provides


The advantage therapists have in being able to model repair when they handle a conversation poorly


What Shelby does if a patient is working with a healthcare professional she doesn’t trust


Why making patients feel you care is more important than the words you use in conversation


Shelby’s advice to patients on initiating the mental health conversation with your PCP


Why Shelby suggests being honest with patients when PCPs feel out of our depth in mental health conversations



Connect with Ms. Riley

Shelby Riley, LMFT & Associates



Connect with Dr. Meyer

Dr. Meyer’s Website


Dr. Meyer on Facebook


Dr. Meyer on Twitter


Dr. Meyer on LinkedIn


Email christine@christinemeyermd.com




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Tempted to Say It’s All in Your Head? Try THIS Instead

Tempted to Say It’s All in Your Head? Try THIS Instead

Christine Meyer