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The Art of Coming Undone: Mary Bronstein on ‘If I Had Legs I’d Kick You’

The Art of Coming Undone: Mary Bronstein on ‘If I Had Legs I’d Kick You’

Update: 2025-10-18
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In this episode of the No Film School Podcast, GG Hawkins speaks with writer-director Mary Bronstein about her searing psychological comedy-drama If I Had Legs, I'd Kick You. The film, starring Rose Byrne, Conan O'Brien, Christian Slater, and A$AP Rocky, explores the emotional breakdown of a woman navigating a mysterious illness in her child, an absentee husband, and a dangerously dependent relationship with her therapist. Premiering at Sundance and earning Rose Byrne a Silver Bear at Berlinale, the film has received critical acclaim for its raw emotional honesty and darkly comedic tone. Mary shares her deeply collaborative process with actors—particularly Byrne—and how performance, not just plot or technique, is the true core of her work.


In this episode, No Film School's GG Hawkins and guest Mary Bronstein discuss...




  • Mary’s non-traditional journey into directing via acting and method training




  • Why understanding acting is essential for directors




  • The intense six-week collaborative prep process Mary and Rose Byrne underwent to develop the character of Linda




  • How Mary tailors her directing style to unlock emotionally raw, performance-driven cinema




  • The importance of maintaining artistic integrity over commercial conformity




  • Why most screenwriting classes and formatting “rules” are, in Mary’s words, “bullshit”




  • The difference between directing for performance versus directing for aesthetics




  • Mary’s perspective on the resurgence of a new indie golden age




Memorable Quotes:




  • "If your performances are shit, your movie is shit to me." (12:49 )




  • "By the time we get to set, there is nothing you could do that would be wrong." (30:34 )




  • "My struggle is a creative one, not a commercial one." (42:08 )




  • "You don’t wait for permission." (46:18 )




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The Art of Coming Undone: Mary Bronstein on ‘If I Had Legs I’d Kick You’

The Art of Coming Undone: Mary Bronstein on ‘If I Had Legs I’d Kick You’

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