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Divorce is one of the most difficult decisions a loyalist can face, especially when loyalty has crossed into codependence. I share my personal experience and four critical questions to ask yourself before making this life-altering decision.

• Loyalty is noble and necessary, but becomes toxic when it binds you to someone not interested in mutual growth
• The emotional weight of considering divorce includes guilt, shame, anxiety, and anger
• Have you truly done everything possible to save your marriage, including counseling and therapy?
• Have you had honest, specific, ongoing conversations with your spouse about your unhappiness?
• Consider the practical reality of life after divorce, including living arrangements and finances
• Children sense dysfunction even without knowing details - they need honesty wrapped in love
• Whether staying or leaving, both paths involve pain - staying means brutal work, leaving means brutal grief
• You have the strength to walk through either path and come out stronger

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