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The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell

The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell

Update: 2025-11-05
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You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.

Whether your partner is hesitant, you’re scared of making it awkward, or you’re just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

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The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell

The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell

Talk Sex with Annette