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The System of Gardens and Flowers: It doesn't have to be safe to be done.

The System of Gardens and Flowers: It doesn't have to be safe to be done.

Update: 2025-07-31
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In this episode, we sit down with the incredible System of Gardens and Flowers—a French polyfragmented system of over 900 parts and a RAMCOA survivor—to explore what it really means to live, work, and heal while navigating complex dissociation and programming.

Together, we explore:

* How they discovered they were a system and began mapping 900+ parts (00:02:03 )

* The difference between “parts” and “fragments”—and how they manage internal communication (00:04:10 )

* What it’s like to be out at work as legal counsel while managing internal dynamics (00:16:00 )

* How programming shows up in everyday life (and what helps dismantle it) (00:23:00 )

* The real-life emotional toll of navigating therapy, memory loss, grief, and trauma (00:24:00 )

* Why love, compassion, and community are lifelines in recovery (00:40:00 )

This is a deeply human, unflinchingly honest, and profoundly hopeful conversation. Whether you're a provider, a survivor, or a fellow system, we hope you'll feel seen here.

Content Warnings: This episode includes references to trauma, RAMCOA, programming, and grief. Please listen with care and take what you need.

Resources Mentioned:

* Hearts Multiplied Forum

* Couple of Multiples Podcast

* Follow System of Gardens and Flowers on Instagram: @systemofgardensandflowers

* Follow Healing My Parts on Instagram

@healingmyparts

* Visit our website for more resources

healingmyparts.org



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The System of Gardens and Flowers: It doesn't have to be safe to be done.

The System of Gardens and Flowers: It doesn't have to be safe to be done.

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