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The Two Greatest Questions That Lead You To Real Love [EP 213]
Description
Are you chasing love that leaves you feeling unworthy or uplifted?
Ken Page reveals the two pivotal questions that can revolutionize your search for love and shield you from unnecessary heartache.
Drawing from four decades of psychotherapy and personal growth, Ken explores the profound difference between "attractions of deprivation"—those intense, addictive relationships that mirror old wounds—and "attractions of inspiration"—connections rooted in mutual respect, safety, and emotional integrity.
He also unpacks how asking one soulful question—“Do I feel safe and seen?”—can fast-track your journey to secure love and deepen your own self-worth.
Listen For:
03:23 What Is an Attraction of Deprivation
07:11 Personal Story The Relationship That Nearly Trapped Ken
09:37 Why Deprivation Feels Like Home
13:10 The Three Cs of Choosing a Partner
15:34 The Second Key Question Do I Feel Safe and Seen
18:01 The Brave Act of Asking for What You Need
21:22 Building a Secure Attachment Style Through Self-Protection
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