Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and real-life scenarios, we uncover the hidden patterns that keep us hooked on the wrong relationships. You’ll hear about the illusion of change, why familiarity feels safer than growth, and how to finally break the cycle for good.

This isn’t just another “relationship talk.” This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and begin choosing differently — time after time.

• The pattern trap: why we mistake familiarity for comfort

• The illusion of change: why “this time will be different” rarely is

• Comfort vs. growth: why peace feels wrong if you’re used to chaos

• Why good people choose bad love (and how childhood scripts shape us)

• Breaking the cycle: stories of those who did… and those who didn’t

• Reflection exercise to spot your relationship patterns

• How to show up for yourself, time after time

Reflection Questions:

• What similarities do your last three relationships share?

• Is this a preference… or a pattern?

• What’s one thing you’ve accepted time after time that you will no longer accept?

📝 Show Notes