In this compelling episode of The Ride, host Zach Quezada sits down with Coach Tom Gravante, a lacrosse legend who spent 28 years as the head coach at Mount St. Mary’s and is now an assistant coach at Bucknell. Joining them is Mark Hargrave, a former player for Coach Gravante who shares his perspective on Gravante’s indelible impact. Together, they delve into stories of resilience, team culture, and the life lessons learned on and off the field. From championship wins to overcoming personal challenges, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration.

Topics Discussed

• Coach Gravante's Lacrosse Journey: Transitioning from player to coach and the lessons learned along the way.

  
  



• Building a Winning Culture: The philosophy behind creating a team environment that fosters resilience and success.

  
  



• Adapting Through Challenges: Transitioning roles and strategies to overcome adversity.

  
  



• Recruiting and Player Development: Insights on finding the right players and cultivating their potential.

  
  



• Memorable Games: Reflections on milestone victories against Richmond and Virginia.

  
  



• Life Beyond Lacrosse: How the values of the sport translate to personal and professional resilience, including Coach Gravante’s battle with cancer.

  
  

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

00:21 Setting Up the Interview

01:46 Coach Gravante's Humble Beginnings

01:46 Transition to Bucknell

02:14 Coaching Philosophy and Strategies

04:26 Building a Winning Culture

22:31 Recruitment and Player Development

26:56 Memorable Seasons and Key Players

36:01 Personal Reflections and Legacy

45:52 A Freshman Year Story: Overcoming Challenges

46:38 The Importance of Footwork and Training

47:08 Recruiting Insights: Hands, Feet, and Hips

49:20 Multi-Sport Backgrounds and Athletic Development

50:53 Coach's Battle with Cancer: A Testament to Resilience

56:50 Coaching Philosophy and Memorable Quotes

01:02:48 Reflecting on Memorable Games and Strategies

01:13:20 Thoughts on NCAA Policies and Roster Limits

01:17:14 Favorite Drills and Coaching Techniques

01:25:56 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Key Quotes from the Episode

1. “If losing doesn’t hurt, you’re going to be a loser the rest of your life.” – Coach Tom Gravante

   
   



2. “What are you doing when the coach isn’t watching? That’s where champions are made.” – Coach Tom Gravante

   
   



3. “Be the hammer, not the nail.” – A Gravante-ism cherished by his players

   
   

Resources Mentioned

• Bucknell University Lacrosse Program: Bucknell Athletics

  
  



• Mount St. Mary’s Lacrosse: Overview of Coach Gravante’s legacy and achievements.

  
  



• "The Ride" Podcast Archives: Previous episodes featuring inspiring lacrosse stories and lessons.

  
  

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